please someone tell me how to find out who to ask about this unusual activity thing they keep hitting me with?

Question

i am getting sick of this "inusual activity detcted" then i cant do a thing. shouldnt someone inform you of the situation. who do you go to?

Answer 1

Are you talking about emails warning you of unusual activity in your supposed account, asking you to sign in and verify your account?

Because if that's what you mean, the emails are bogus, called "Phishing" or "Spoofing". They try to get you to sign in to what looks like a legitimate website but it's not - they can steal your account & password information if you do sign in through their link. You can report them by forwarding the email to the place where it claims it's from (eBay, a bank, whatever) or you can just ignore them.

Hope I understood your meaning, sorry if I did not.