what reason would a guy continue "talking" to a girl that is totally disrespectful to his lady/wife and the girl has come from a stand point of offering herself to him sexually?
what reason other than he was sexual active at one point with her or wanted to be would he continue to speak to this girl even after he promised not too after saying I do to his lady/wife?
2007-03-15 10:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No point other than that he doesn't have much respect for the wife, and wants to f1ck the girl.
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2016-12-18 14:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because he can. He does it because there are no consequences for his behaviour. He disrespects his lady because the lady is disrespecting herself by allowing it to happen. We are all masters of our own destiny and if we allow something unacceptable to happen, then we are creating our own destiny. If you want him to change, then you have to change. You have to change your opinion of yourself and believe that you deserve better. If you believe that you are this piece of garbage that can be treated any way their partner want, then its time for some professional intervention to pick up your self esteem a bit. We are all a product of our environment and we gain our self worth by our experiences from birth......If you always never felt good enough, if you were always being put down, then you dont usually end up with good self esteem and you are setting yourself up to be treated badly in relationships. You have to find a way to find your self esteem. Counselling is a great tool....but also start to do things to make you feel good about yourself.....start to achieve.....go do a course....become qualified......become a person's equal. You are no lesser or greater than anyone in this world....its what you make of your life that will determine your personal success.
Dont allow him to do this to you anymore....you are better than that. If you cant find your self esteem and pride by yourself, then go get help to find it.
You deserve better....take care.
2007-03-15 11:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he still finds her interesting. You need to just flat out tell him you're not okay with it, and if he doesn't stop, then stop driving yourself NUTS about it, and move on.
He may just be toying with her. Flirting with her. Leading her along, but then again, maybe he's having his cake and eating it too.
Stop letting him control how YOU feel. He can either get with the program, or GET STEPPIN!
2007-03-15 10:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for you husband to talk to any body (man or woman) who disrespects you. You should come first to him. As for them throwing themselves at him - that's not right. I think you and your husband really need to have a talk - counseling might even be something to consider.
2007-03-15 10:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the lady\wife should beat her a**. But I don't like to much volence so I would either break up with him or get back at him.
2007-03-15 10:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some shmoe above said to beat the girl's a** but really it his you should be kicking. Get rid of him. Behavior like that will never change.
2007-03-15 10:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to put your foot down with this one. He is disrespecting you by continuing to talk to this woman who has clearly upset you, i would tell him to choose, if he chooses you, great, if not, you dont want him anyway.
2007-03-15 10:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by han83b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he has to stop that. Put your foot down. There's no room in a marriage for this type of disrespect. Tell him to stop or he risks losing you.
2007-03-15 10:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the wife needs to find another husband
2007-03-15 10:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by faithfully ronnie`s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋