Think that I have a am a ***** and have an anger problem. I dont think I do its just that I rather not deal or take any b.s from anyone anymore so they say that im a ***** or I have an anger problem. So that makes me an angry b1tchy person?? Im sorry if I cannot be a smiley happy person all the time.
2007-03-15 10:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by ♠GrInD♠ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sorry about the typos guys. :]
2007-03-15 10:54:31 · update #1
People just have to point their finger at someone... so even tho they might think and say you're b*tchy... you might go around and say someone else is b*tchy and they might be asking the same question you are... you can't expect everyone to like you and so what if they think you're a *****... at least you can say you dont let people f*ck with u and walk all over you. People call me a b*tch all the time and you know what I really don't care because the way I figure it is if you're willing to call someone a b*tch then you're probably a b*tch too. Everyone gets b*tchy sometimes... no one is perfect. People who go around judging others needs to really understand that concept and get some self help classes on why they have to compensate for their insecurities by making others feel like sh*t
2007-03-15 10:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by kmcf7188@sbcglobal.net 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all about attitude. Yes; I understand that a person cannot be happy, smiley all the time, but you need to open up yourselves to others. If you get angry often, and snap at them in any way, then they're going to think you're mean.
You just need to learn how to be patient; even if they spout insults or so forth to you. Keep calm, and don't get angry unless the situation really is that bad. But then again, keeping your cool makes you look more mature; doing so not only makes you seem a lot more put-together, but can get you out of tough situations where both sides could take damage.
No matter what a person says, don't listen to them; ignore them, but don't get angry. Keep it all in, or state your answer in an assertive way.
2007-03-15 18:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sakura H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You go girl.
Sometimes its good to express your anger and your feelings, and when the people at the receiving end do not like it, they tend to call you names.
Maybe they always talk down on you or always get away with saying or doing bad things to you, and they are shocked when that side of you gets out.
Keep it up girl, that's keeping it real.
You can't always be a smiley face.
You are a human being with feelings, not an inanimate object.
Next time I don't think they will give you any more b.s after how you reacted to them.
2007-03-15 17:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may not be so much how you are, but how you express yourself to others. One can be quite assertive and no-nonsense in a gracious, kind way that doesn't appear rude. It takes practice and self-awareness, but it's doable.
2007-03-15 17:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by KC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think, they're probably stupid. Most people in the world are as dumb as a brick.
2007-03-15 18:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This really is hilarious. How can you ask this question to people who never met you or your friends? how can you expect an answer? WE DONT KNOW.
2007-03-15 17:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When people say that to me, then I become what they think I am.
2007-03-15 17:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by nokhada5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
temper your words and learn to smile and nod
2007-03-15 17:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean y is people i dont know its weird
2007-03-15 17:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by proto215 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋