we have hated eachother for the past 7 years. (im in 7th grade, do the math!!) recently she stole my 6th grade yearbook because i wrote something about her in it and she wrote in it and she wrote something bad on almost every page to try to get ME in trouble and she gave it to the teacher but i just took it off the teachs' desk when she wasnt looking and i showed it to the assis. principle and she got 2 days of lunch detention. and her stupid friend called me a p.u.s.s.y cuz i told on her and i said u told on me to *********!!! and so now she wants to fight me...
im not the kind of fighting person but my friends are, they said they would help me. i have reasons not to fight.
1. i am going 2 my sisters wedding in 2 weeks and i dont want to go with a busted lip and a black eye.
2. i dont want 2 get arrested
2007-03-15 10:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fighting is most definitely not the answer. First try avoiding this young lady at all cost. Then when it comes to the point that you can not avoid her anymore, just totally ignore her. Don't give her the satisfaction of looking at her. She just wants more attention then she is entitled to.
2007-03-15 10:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it is against the law for you to fight and for two or more to jump in it is consider a gang fight and you all will go to jail and treated as a gang. I grew up we had to fight or get beat to death, and this is not the way it should be. I use to fight over anything and now at my age it's embarrassing when people bring it up. I even went to jail over my now X -husband cheating on me I warned the lady then words flew and I hurt her bad and it's was stupid, and I admitted guilt in court and payed a fine and that was that and now he is free to any woman that will have his sorry dead beat daddy a@@ but that was 26 years ago and it doesn't work like that anymore. Just stay away. Unless you have to defend yourself then so so but people don't fight like use to someone brings weapons and then lives are lost over something stupid thing and parents and siblings are lost for the rest of their lives. Be the bigger one and ignore her and if these are your friend they want try to get you into trouble or they don't care. They probably will run when the fighting breaks out and then you end up screwed up and ugly for your sister wedding if not a funeral then your sisters wedding is all screwed up.
2007-03-15 10:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her that you know the two of you don't get along and leave it at that. tell her waisting her time isn't worth getting expelled from school. Fighting doesn't accomplish anything except making more enemies. Just tell her you both see things differently and if you and her can agree to leave each other alone. Let her do her thing and you do yours. Tell her your not waisting your time on someone like her. I don't know if telling her your sorry will work but you can try that and see what happens. She was hurt by what you wrote and she was trying to get even. If at all possible can you two become friends? If not just stay clear of her. Words are just that... Words!
2007-03-15 10:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right not to get into a physical confrontation with this girl. I mean hey, she was obviously trying to set you up to get busted by your teacher for what she wrote in your yearbook.. Besides.. this is all really pretty petty stuff when you step back and look at it.. There are times when you have to stand up for yourself and what you believe in and fight.. but I don't think this is one of them. Avoid the fight, you have every reason not to do it. This is your chance to rise above this situation instead of sinking down to her level.
2007-03-15 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by aralissselundel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am going to get a thumbs down but if this girl has been bullying you for 7 years, you might have to just stand up to her & fight her. After she see's that your not afraid of her maybe the feud will end.
2007-03-15 10:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 issues... If she attacks you and also you've were given no selection... After seeing how maximum females wrestle, all you may do is via promptly punches (along with your palm in case your knuckles damage) hard and non end, to their face/abdomen. As hard as you are able to, dont carry again. 2d..... No boy, in any respect, will care in case you again down from the wrestle or no longer. It doesnt make you a lot less warm in case you dont wrestle, and it doesnt make you larger warm in case you do wrestle. No guy will care, in any respect. believe me. someone ought to tease you in simple terms to funny tale round, yet adult adult males dont care how hard females are. it really is any incorrect way round. females care how hard adult adult males are lol. so some distance as what females imagine of you, who cares? they are all gonna ignore about it in a pair days besides. and females are not envisioned to be hard in any case. a woman's popularity is frequently about how fairly and effective and smart they are. Noone cares how sturdy a woman is. If I were you i often is the mature one and act like she's stupid for wanting to wrestle you. seem at her like she's a stupid youngster and in simple terms ignore about her and walk away. If she attacks, flow at it finished rigidity. Or... tell a guy buddy to gaurd you. Or tell a secure practices gaurd/instructor the position the wrestle should be, or perhaps as. so if she comes once you he will be gazing and end it and it wont appear like you instructed everybody. in case you take advantage of sufficient mind to imagine a number of steps ahead, you'll continuously come first.
2016-11-25 22:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you both could benefit from having a relationship with God. To err is human to forgive divine. Hate is never good and I know you don't want to hurt her. Please take her aside and try and make peace. I will be praying for you. And I will leave you with this.
The prayer of St. Francis says it best............
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
2007-03-15 10:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by itty bitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK THAT SOUNDS PRETTY BAD.....WELL I GOT I A FIGHT IN P.E.(IM IN 7 GRADE TO) THIS YEAR I DONT CARE WHAT THOSE BULLIES SAY BOUT ME CAUSE IM THEY POPULAR ONE AT SKOOL SO I TOLD THE TEACHER MY FRIENDS HAD MY BACK ALL THEY WAY THEY SAID I MADE THE RITE DECISSION CAUSE THESE GIRLS WOULD HAVE BUSTED ME UP......GOD BLESS YOU LET GOD LEAD YOU TO THE RITE DECISSION
2007-03-15 10:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls, do not encourage your friends to fight for you ok.
Report her to the authorities again.
2007-03-15 10:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by The Razor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO YOUR PRINCIPLE AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON. ITS HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE ACTION AGAINST THE GIRL SO THAT NO HARM COMES TO YOU. HE WILL BE HELD RESPONSIBLE IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO YOU AFTER THAT. ALSO IF YOU CANT TALK TO YOUR PRINCIPLE GO TO YOUR COUNCILOR AND TELL THEM. THEY WILL TALK TO THE GIRL AND LET HER KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HER IF SHE TOUCHES YOU IN ANY WAY. THE SCHOOL WILL PROTECT YOU SO DON'T BE AFRAID......
2007-03-15 10:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋