I am just wondering why so many people have or talk about sex. I mean it is not everything. Why do stupid people pay for it with cash. Why is it when a women sleeps with a man she a bad word. but when a man does he is cool. Why is people engagin in sex when their are diseases,. NO condom doesn't protect you form everything. WHy can't sex just between to people in the bedroom, Why can't sex be private between man and women? Why does virgins get make fun of if you are 30 or 40 years of age. Yes i am a virign.
2007-03-15 10:08:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What else is there? I'm not a food affinidno, or music, or exercise or reading and if it's not related to sex I find some kind of way to bring it into the conversation.. I love sex. I love sex. Satan has made it "look" so cool in the dirty, perverted way. I know that God has a clean version, I'm just not trusting Him on it and ready for it. Eventually I'll fully turn.
On the heirarchy of needs, SEX is at the top.
2007-03-15 10:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is just my opinion, but I think it's good for people to talk about sex. I'd rather people be educated about this sort of thing than not. Part of the problem is keeping it behind closed doors. I love to talk about it with my friends; I make jokes about it, and we are able to have serious conversations about it as well. I agree that virgins shouldn't be persecuted for their decision, and I agree that women shouldn't be stigmatized if they decide to have sex. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, and there's nothing wrong with being promiscuous, as long as you take the proper precautions. Too often promiscuous people, and in fact anyone who has sex before marriage, are stigmatized. We have to realize that no one is perfect; not everyone has the same beliefs, and what makes someone happy may not have the same affect on another person. In general, we need to be more accepting of each other. That, I think, is the real problem.
2007-03-15 17:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Persephone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
society has done a good job brainwashing people into thinking that sexual activity is essential in order to be happy or complete as a person.
strong people, like you and me, realize this is crazy, silly and dangerous.
my body is sacred and special, i am not just gonna give it to just anyone. you gotta earn my love, trust, and respect, to get anywhere with me.
i am a 33 yr old virgin and happy to save it for marriage. that's the only way it will really matter..
sex without love is sad and is a clear statement that people have no self respect and don't care about their future partner, nor do they care about their own health and safety.
2007-03-15 18:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Modern life is very "empty". Everyone just work, go home, watch TV programme, sleep, work again. They don't need much channel to let go their stress. No mcuh people are interested in enrichment activities as it's time consumption. They need to work to survive. So, other that work and work, they think of sex.
2007-03-15 22:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue sex is the largest part of our psyche. If you think about it, humans are of the animalia kingdom of life. Not only that, but life according to science, is ther just for the sake of creating more humans. Therefore, we think about sex because we have a phsycological need to perpetuate our species.
2007-03-15 17:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Aal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about supply and demand. being its a private and intimate that no one really discusses it openly. and its a hot topic when it does?
like watching porno, once used to it, we're almost " numb". same thing here.
no one laughs at a virgin but ones that is not does! . . . lol . . . sorry . . .
something rare is always indemand and treasured.
it might be one's perception / sensativity of so and seems obvious
2007-03-16 22:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by doublelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord..so many "whys". Congrats on the "virgin"...but who really cares ?
2007-03-15 17:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋