My friend named "sally" isnt being a really nice person. She is telling me that she is being rude to me and my other friend name "rachel" cuz she just broke up with her boyfriend. but that is no excuse at all. she has been being rude to us for the past month and i am getting really frusterated or however you spell it. like she is talking to people that she talks behind there back and everything and says that she wud nvr be their friend but truly she is being like a better friend to them then she is to me and "rachel". i need help during this time in my life. so please help me PLEASE!
-anonymous
2007-03-15 09:14:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that she needs to lose the attitude or she can lose friends just because she broke up with her boyfriend doesnt mean you and "rachel" are the fault of it and you should be there for her but sometimes enough is enough be straight forward with her! Good luck!
2007-03-15 09:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by jacks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a friendly FYI it is spelled frustrated. What I don't understand is her explanation. She is being mean to you because she broke up with her boyfriend?? That really doesn't make any sense and is a very poor excuse. You don't need to worry about her speaking to people that she wasn't before or talking about behind their backs because that's her problem and people are going to talk about others because that is just human nature. What you should focus on is whether or not you can tolerate her behavior and whether or not it is that important if you and her remain friends. You need to let her know how you feel and maybe listen to her problems, maybe there is something she isn't telling that really affecting her about the breakup. I think that you are good for even hanging around to find out, because I wouldn't even pay her any attention. I think that you and your other friend "Rachel" should remain in each others company and wait to find out what "Sally" is really about and what she plans to do.
2007-03-15 09:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by JaZbWell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people deal with break ups differently. also you and your other friend have to get together and talk to her. find out why she's acting so shady and tell her that whatever she's doing to you guys is not right b/c you guys have been there for her when she needed someone. if that doesn't work out then you might be better off not being friends. some people could be mean, but others like to have other follow them around like little puppies and your no puppy. SPEAK UP and let her hear YOU!!!!
2007-03-15 09:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her how your feeling. There is no way around that. Just tell her that you know she is going through a hard period in time, but that she should lean on you, because that's what friends are for, and you want to be there for her. Ask her if there is anything else bothering her, that would make her act so differently with you.
2007-03-15 09:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Karine I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and "Rachel" should confront this friend about it. She may not realize just how much she is doing what she is doing and by both of you confronting her she will realize that it is not just you that sees this. If she doesn't change after you confront her then its prob. time to find a new Friend. I know it won't be easy so good luck.
2007-03-15 09:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by softballchk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be rude using fact of motives at abode, or only very own motives. in case you 2 are bestfriends, attempt to no longer go away her, you will possibly be able to experience sorry approximately it sometime. yet whilst there is consistent battling, then issues wont workout consultation between you 2. as young ones...all of us develop and become previous and mature in distinctive techniques and bypass by distinctive tiers. she could be dealing with tiers of her existence. & experiencing. yet she might heavily want you in her existence. possibly you 2 ought to take a seat down mutually, have an extensive eye party like we use to as quickly as we've been little and only have a girl communicate. those are constantly emotional if its authentic acquaintances. refer to her. and tell her extremely each and every thing you only stated at right here. in case you extremely love her as a bestfriend and she or he loves you as a bestfriend, then you might make issues artwork. yet remember, you cant constantly stress issues to artwork. :) stable success lady.
2016-10-18 11:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes not being a good friend 2 u and ur other friends than ignore her,and ur rite just cuz her bf and her split gives her no reason 2 take it out on u.so dont bother w/her.
2007-03-15 09:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by caligurllovya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you can choose your friends.Do not any person treat you with less than respect because it will only get worse as that type of person finds out that they can treat you that way.
2007-03-15 09:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cinna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a friend isn't acting like a friend, you should just give up that friendship. soon they will realize what they lost and think of a way to fix that.
2007-03-15 09:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by tailslovsu94 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...she is pretty much a *****...
she is being really mean to me and anonymous.
if you want to know more check out the question i asked...
she is such a backstabber!
2007-03-15 09:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anna ♡'s You! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋