Does it gross you out, or does it remind you of what all she did for you?
2007-03-15 08:59:05 · 7 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
coming from a guys prospective i believe that when my wife becomes pregnant she should continue to go to the gym, because we do go to the gym almost everynite. But in no way would i be grossed out or scrutinize her for gaining weight. I just think people feel better about themselves when they stay active, and it would probably be a healthy start for the baby, and a new mother.
2007-03-15 09:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be grossed out at all, unless he's a shallow person. My husband has never, ever commented on my after-baby body. When I say how terrible it looks, he says, "honey, you just had a baby." Yeah, 10 months ago! Don't worry about anything. If you nurse your baby, you will lose the weight much quicker. I gained 50 lbs. and have lost 70 since he was born. It will come off. It just takes a little time.
2007-03-15 16:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Stephene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 37 weeks preggers and I constantly ask my boyfriend if he still thinks I am beautiful. What he tells me is how could I think you are not beautiful, you are carrying the most important thing in the world to me. He also says I am beautiful because he loves me. Then I ask well what about when have some extra weight and stretch marks and he says I love you no matter what and every little stretch mark is just a reminder of the beautiful gift you are giving me.
Yeah he is good with words, but I know what he means. He simply loves me and our baby and nothing is going to change that. Think about it, how can a man who loves you, not appreciate the sacrifices you make for bringing him such joy?
2007-03-15 16:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly7887 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ever going to get a completely honest answer from any man. I just had a baby three months ago, and I am constantly asking my man if he still find me attractive. He says he does, but I doubt it. Why? because as a woman I don't feel the same confidence as I did before I had the baby.
2007-03-15 16:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely shouldn't gross a guy out! I dare my husband to critisize my body after giving weight to our son. Fortunately, I don't have a man who would act like that:)
2007-03-15 16:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Proud mother! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Its takes 9 months to put it all on...it'll take at least 9 months to take it off. And really...who has time to worry about stuff like that ones the lil angel is there?
2007-03-15 16:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jesi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to know the men's answer to this. Try posting it in "Marriage and Divorce" and you'll probably get more male answers. (please< I'm very curious)
2007-03-15 16:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋