I'm talking about hotties, not the frumpy dumpy women.
So I can give a compliment to my hottie wife about her rear or how hot she looks and this is not offensive. But if I open my mouth about the hottie walking in front of us, THATS offensive?
I just don't get you women.
So basically you want all the focus on you not matter how many hotties are around you is that right? Otherwise you get jelaous and throw a fit right? Like a little 3 year old.
Thats right go cry to your momma!
Awww was the matter, you thought you were the center of the world? Awww poor baby!
2007-03-15 08:46:45 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's fine to appreciate and verbally express appreciation for anyone who takes care of themselves - men appreciating the hotties, women appreciating a guy, etc, as long as he/she remains faithful and HONEST. It's the ones that aren't honest, and don't express that appreciation that you have to watch out for. You know, those self righteous ones who go behind your back - you know who you are.
2007-03-15 11:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerks R Us are looking for a sensitivity trainer. Don't bother applying.
You can compliment your wife all you want. You can remark about the hottie in front of you quietly to a guy friend but not to your wife. She is hearing a complaint that the other woman's parts are more attractive to you than hers are.
You also do not tell a strange woman that she's hot to her face unless you like pain and being arrested.
Put the shoe on the other foot (after you pull it out of your mouth). How would you like your wife to make comments on a man's behind or nether parts to you? Maybe making comparisons as to equipment sizes??
2007-03-15 08:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It just makes some women feel that they can't "measure up" to what their men really like. It's a lack of self confidence. Women look too, they just don't admit it as often. I don't mind the looking, but if he's making a big ole scene about it, I wanna slap the crap out of him. It's just disrespectful, and childish to do that, with your wife there. I understand that men are just different in their thought patterns. Not all women can deal with that fact. Think about it. If your wife was always barking at the hot men she saw with you right there, how confident would you feel? Contrary to popular belief, women have egos too.
2007-03-15 08:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So tell us, studly...how would you like it if every time your wife saw a handsome, younger, better built man walk by, she remarked how YOU didn't measure up to him.
How 'bout everytime a real hot hunk walks by, she makes some remark about how she thinks he might be better endowed than you?
Are you for real?
If you have a good relationship, why do you get off insulting and baiting women here?
So, you're asking why your behavior wouldn't be offensive, but would you allow the same thing in return?
2007-03-15 08:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my word!
Lets see no its not offensive but its wrong! It makes a woman feel unappriciated when you do it in front of her. It makes her think shes not good enough, or you would prefer to be with the other woman.
We dont throw fits like three. And if we do get over it men do it too!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 08:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you call a lady a "hottie" shows how very immature you really are. You are quite narrow minded if you think your behavior isn't hurting your wife's feelings and crushing her self esteem. I guess you'll find that out in divorce court.
2007-03-15 08:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh hon, we love getting attention with our looks! But when men look at us like a piece of meat then heck yeah thats offensive! There's admiring and there's ogling. Maybe you look with your tongue rolling out of your mouth and that's why you get the reactions you get!
2007-03-15 12:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just women - I think every person wants to feel special and noticed. You've made it pretty obvious that's true for you personally with your posts Yahoo answers. You're obviously seeking attention. Why criticize women as a whole, or even just one woman, for wanting attention as well?
2007-03-15 08:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by romipenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot and your wife was constantly watching hot guys and making comments?
2007-03-15 14:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she's just selfish, next time do what i seen men do when I pass by, nicely have her walk in front of you ,then check it out.
Problem solved un taco de ojo sin berinche.
2007-03-15 14:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋