I was just wondering because they act like its hard to let you in...this aquarius i know said they didnt care....but then when i was with them my phone kept jumping off the hook..and they looked at me like they wanted to say something...then they said "your phone shore is going off" then later that day they asked me who i was talking to all day...and it happend to be my cousin??? whats that all about if you dont care
2007-03-15 08:38:59 · 15 answers · asked by lefteye w 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Well Aquarius people are curious by nature, most of us like to know everything about the person because thats what makes us comfortable, personally I have a few trust issues but I don't let it dictate my relationships but yes it gets the best of me at times, I think alot of Aquarius people like to assimilate themselves into peoples lives, we like to know the intimate details about someone inorder to feel like we KNOW the person, this is how we feel safe (not all but most Aqua's are like this)
If your phone is jumping off the hook, naturally we are curious about that, if you didn't volunteer who was calling and the relationship between you and the person calling then we will obviously not trust you.
Aqua people can be straight to the point and if your not volunteering information than there will be issues of mistrust.
Yes its hard to let people in but its not as though we won't or can't but we must FEEL SAFE enough to do it and the only way we can feel safe is if you/the person can be forth right and honest about who you are and whats going on in your life.
If he asked you about your phone, you could have volunteered the information instead of not telling him, if you had done that you would have seen a totally different side of the Aqua, by not doing that he will naturally mistrust you and keep you in a certain category or eventually lose interest and move on.
the bottom line is not so much the fact that we have issues with trust but moreso its about if we really like someone, we want to KNOW EVERYTHING about the person, we want to know the most intimate details about you because afterall Aquarius is the sign that KNOWS everything although we really don't but we have this air about us that says we know. If we don't feel as though we KNOW you then it becomes frustrating and we either mistrust you or disregard you all together (aloof).
2007-03-16 01:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by yunchi30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you go out with this Aquarius, your cell phone keeps ringing and rather than put it on vibrate or turn it off completely so you could be totally present to the Aquarius in question, instead of doing THAT you simply took the call? The CALLS? Is that what you're story is?
I can only say that if it was me who was with you that day and your phone was "jumping off the hook" you wouldn't have ever gotten a call back from me, or a comment the next day or any other day. That would've been it. Done. Over. Bye bye.
So the Aquarius has no trust issues. The only issue for this person is why would they want to continue talking to you after that. Apparently, theyre giving you the benefit of the doubt, which is far more than i would ever give you.
2007-03-15 20:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well I can only speak for myself but I do happen to be an Aquarius. I know that I have trust issues. I've found it VERY hard to trust those around me. I don't think it necessarily has to do with what sign you are though. My trust issues stem back to the things that people have done to me. Everyone is different. My mom is also an Aquarius and she has no trust issues what so ever. We're completely opposite when it comes to that. In other words, you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. Every single person is unique and has their own ways.
2007-03-15 15:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by devious805er 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has strong Aquarian influences is a person who is extremely uncertain of his or her true identity. The Aquarius ego is said to be the most precarious in the zodiac, probably because Aquarius is the sign of nonconformity. Intellectual genius, practical eccentricity and mental oddity are all linked with Aquarius. The typical Aquarius has a magnetic and powerful intellect. Putting this to good, practical use is the best way for Aquarius to build an identifiable ego. ( The Diagram Group, pg. 218-19)
2007-03-15 17:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Normally, Aquarians are aloof to such concerns. They generally feel there are better things to think about than such petty human concerns. Sounds like the person you're talking about might have a negative placement in their chart that affects them that way.
2007-03-15 15:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Feathery 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has trust issues. It's a common aspect of the human condition.
2007-03-15 15:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chris A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my Aquarius for almost 5 years, and omg is he just like that.
Phone rings "whos that, who called, who are you talking to"
you put a quote on your myspace page:
"What does that mean, who is that for"
"Where did you go, why, when, and what for? "
lol, its hilarious.
2007-03-15 16:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am aquarius and I TRUST NO ONE ANY MORE
but that came from man.... not by my birth sign
2007-03-15 15:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
They're so aloof and cold it's a wonder they have any friends, yet they seem to have plenty of them. I think you're right, they look after number one.
2007-03-16 05:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aquarians can't see past their own noses mostly so trust is not an option with them until they have been put in that situation.
however, they are usually so dastardly themselves that it pretty much goes over their heads anyway.
you won't find may aquarians holding grudges.
scorpio could follow their leads
2007-03-15 15:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋