My friend and I have been really close since kindergarten.At least until recently when my friend got a new friend and I tried to becaome Freinds with her too but at first it was hard but now me and her are good friends and my old friend doesn't like it she said that I am a bad friend and I am trying to ruin her and her friend's friendship.Am I a bad friend????? I am not trying to ruin their friendship.Or do you think I am trying to steal her friend??????Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 08:32:47 · 7 answers · asked by Chelsea Critchfield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
...NO your not being a bad person...you probably just started to hang around her along with your other friend and due to your personality and hers as well you two are meshing well...maybe there is some bad feelings on your friends part because she is the one who originally befriended the girl and it is because of her you two meet and now you two are closer than she and the girl are...it's not anyone's fault but and I don't suggest you not be friends with her anymore as long as she treats you like a TRUE friend should...It's like when you see her or she sees you the two of you speak and act friendly with each other because that chemistry is there it's not like you have to think to yourself I can't speak to her because she is only allowed to be my friends good friend and not mine...see how dumb that sounds...your not stealing or ruining anything your just getting along with a new person and learning to befriend her...don't worry just keep the lines of communication open with both of them and don't back off of a good relationship with the girl because your older friend who should know you better thinks you are trying to do her harm when you know in your heart you aren't...do you have an older sister you can talk to or your mom or aunt?
2007-03-15 08:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are not something you own, therefore you cant steal them! If she has problems with you being friends with this other person, she is the one with issues not you. If she was really your best friend, she would be happy that you get along with the same people she does!
2007-03-15 08:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You were just trying to make friends with the new girl, so you could all get along! She might be jealous that your hanging out with her friend more then her. Try to spread your love evenly. Explain to your friend why you were friendly, and ask her what it is thats making her mad. Hope it clears up soon!
2007-03-15 08:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning this isn't any longer something you ought to be doing besides and whilst the police officers are referred to as somebody is going to speak and of path you had the knife you made the choice to pull out the knife you will get blame isn't your pal that have been given you in complication is the knife, you ought to no longer carry a knife and in no way pull out a knife on every person or you will get in complication, this would properly be a serious remember, no person is going to adhere out for you once you do something incorrect, they are no longer your pal in the event that they rigidity you into getting rid of the knife and then letting you're taking the blame, this purely potential that what you probably did become incorrect and especially circumstances fabulous out with those form of pal will purely get you in complication, my ultimate advise is get extra useful acquaintances, ones who would not rigidity you into doing something incorrect, whilst someones aid you do something incorrect they are no longer your friends. Be smart elect your friends wisely.
2016-11-25 22:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by turnbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad friend. you wanted to be friends with the new person because your first friend had made friends with her so you were trying to fit in. theres nothing wrong in that. i think you are a great friend.
2007-03-15 08:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you are trying to steel her friend shpi with the other person i think you are just trying to become all of there friends
2007-03-15 09:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not a bad friend she just jeouls
2007-03-15 08:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋