I wouldn't.If he cant ever take the responsibilty to keep his credit good then that shows what he wont do for other things.
2007-03-15 08:11:52 · 33 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i did marry someone with bad credit, and was sorry i did, it limited our ability to purchase things, it shows they may not be honest in other area's of life. shows u may not be able to trust them, as in my case. he also ran up my credit, and than walked out on me as he had done years earlier with his creditors. so he has no ethics, no character, and may do the same thing to u. shows he isn't responsible. i would find out exactly why he lost his credit, but shows a pattern of behavior, and way of life.
2007-03-15 08:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did this. Believe me after we have been together for 11 yrs and 2 kids later. He has learned and so have I. I love my hubby. The credit is improving and that is all that matters. We have been able to buy and sell 2 houses over the last 8 yrs. Just bc someone has bad credit don't mean that they aren't a good person. I think that you are being very judgemental. Maybe that is why you are alone!
2007-03-15 08:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have bad credit, my ex was going to marry me, but here is thing, depending on the situation that he was in, and what kind of guy he is now, why wouldn't you marry a really good guy? I mean if you have good credit and he is doing his best then why not? I dont know i think your being selfish, and i'm not saying it's bad to be selfish, but think about it long term, credit can be rebuilt, feelings you've hurt can't.
2007-03-16 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't compare it to that. I think that love is a little different. I can understand your analogy and all, but sometimes people hit a rough spot in life. Is he making a plan to correct the problem? What are his future goals with his credit situation? How would you feel if he were wondering the same things about you; if the shoe were on the other foot? Good luck!
2007-03-15 08:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't even spell marry. I would never marry someone who can't spell such a simple word. Even though yahoo has a spell check. I have bad credit, credit is some overrated **** to be honest. A couple of screw ups, exorbitant hospital bills and you have bad credit for 7 years. Don't believe everything that is fed to you. There is life without credit. As a matter of fact, credit is not very important anywhere but in this country. If you have money, to hell with credit. At least everything you have is yours free and clear.
2007-03-15 08:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by asif k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you marry someone you should be able to love them unconditionally. That's what the whole "For richer or poorer" thing is about. At the same time, part of being a responsible adult is taking care of your finances and unless he has a real reason for having bad credit (Like illness, taking care of a family member, starting his own business or getting laid off) then it speaks volumes about how resposible he would be if you started a family.
2007-03-15 08:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad credit is one of the worst problems to have... however there exists a solution.
I will hereby talk from my personal experience.
I did debt consolidation a couple of years ago, however If I had to do it again I would pay to some minor details,
if someone wants to get out of debt today it is pretty easy with a debt consolidation plan, however it may get a bit tricky at times, I suggest you get as much information as possible online on this first,
a good place to start in my humble opinion is astraight to the point ebook with question and answer I found :
http://umgarticles.atspace.com/debt-consolidation.htm
if it helps kindly remember me in your voting!.. cheers!
2007-03-15 20:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, he had no credit, I fixed it for him, I am now paying all the bills, basically taking care of the money. Men don't need a woman just for sex you know! They are nothing without us, ask most of the guys how irresponsible they were before getting involved seriously with a woman, you will be surprised of the answers. unless they don't want to tell the truth!
2007-03-15 08:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Sometimes people have bad credit through no fault of their own. Medical bills alone can wreck your credit. If he was someone who spent recklessly and never intended on paying back what he owes, than no. But, if he just happened to go through a rough patch, of course.
2007-03-15 08:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, like 90% of America WILL have bad credit at some point in time in your life or you will have no credit.
2007-03-15 11:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋