My boyfriend and I just separated after 4 years. It was my decision. I had an affair after a year of being miserable in my relationship. We tried to work it out, but he did not trust me (with good reason as I did contact the "other man" again after the affair though it was for a benign reason). He threated to leave me several times and I finally got tired of it and asked him to move out. We haven't dissolved the realationship yet, but I would like to know if anyone has ever been separated before and was it successful in helping to resolve relationship issues. Thank You in advance.
2007-03-15 08:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by SK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't work out a relationship if you don't want to be in it. If you're miserable, you should break up with him. Move on.
2007-03-15 08:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by vexen431 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some separated people are able to resolve their issues. Definitely seek professional help (couples counseling) to get you guys through this.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 15:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is by far the most important factor in a relationship.Once the trust is broken it is nearly impossible to get back and the relationship is lost.Move on.
2007-03-15 15:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by one_man_gang2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you separate you have no relationship, and the issues all seem to be yours.
2007-03-15 15:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and Yes.
2007-03-15 15:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship was over the second you cheated
end it
move on
2007-03-15 15:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋