she loaned me her computer and forgot some emails that were very suggestive and many contacts. She said they were just friends...but did delete all his emails she told me. I have had a hard time with this and she knows it, but the other day she contacted him again...she asked him a question that seemed as if they had a continuing conversation...as usual she said they were just friends and they hardly ever talked...but she knew even talking to him would hurt me...why would she take the chance knowing even hiding it from me wouldn't be very loving!???
2007-03-15 08:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it was obvious they had still been talking..she just blows it off...I have told her for months not to speak with him..I really want to call him!
2007-03-15 08:22:59 · update #1
mama mac what you said is exactly what she told me..my gut tells me it was more..i just don't know how much more
2007-03-15 08:30:51 · update #2
she is like a pro and turns it around on me..would love to trick one or the other into finding out what really happened
2007-03-15 08:35:53 · update #3
I should start seeing HIS WIFE!
2007-03-15 08:45:27 · update #4
She did it cause she only cares about her self. She's lying to you.
2007-03-15 08:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Although....my husband found some e-mails that were between myself and a male co-worker that upset him a great deal, however there was nothing going on. I can see how he could have perceived them the wrong way though, because there was innocent flirting happening. Consider the fact that you may have misunderstood.
Go with your gut. If you think she cheated, she probably did...unless you're just one of those really jealous guys that over reacts...which you are probably not.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 15:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's human...and sometimes attention feels good, especially if you feel your "lacking" something at home. Have you ever done something that you knew maybe wasn't the right or perfect thing to do, but didn't plan on acting on it, so goofed around anyways? Talk to her. Let her know your concerns, but not in an accusatory kind of way...but more in an "I don't want to lose you" kind of way.
2007-03-15 15:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey at least she's being sneaky about it. If you weren't so snoopy, you'd never know she was getting some on side. She still loves you. It's just that this guy is hung like a freakin' horse and she needs that big ol schlong every once in a while.
2007-03-15 15:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of experience i would say that she has cheated and maybe still is. She is trying to hide this from you. Look into this very closely, come out and ask her, be bold about it and let her know that your not comfortable with this friendship she has with this guy. This is your wife and your marriage and you need to fight hard for it.
2007-03-15 15:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is lying to you.
I like your update. Call the guy up and confront him. He's part of the problem. It may not solve things with your wife but it will help get to the bottom of what's going on.
2007-03-15 15:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the trash box what she has erased. Women are more intellegent in everything especially these type of things.
If u say what u r going to do with her, she will plan to corner u so watch asif not serious.
2007-03-15 15:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by romarishi r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to have a good talk with your wife and tell her just how you feel. her not telling you about her friend..only makes you think of what may have or not have happened. you need to be prepared for the truth regardless. she may not be telling you how she really feels. good luck.
2007-03-15 15:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by monroe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's cheating. Get hard proof and dump her. She's only causing you stress.
2007-03-15 15:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is heartless and not concerned about your feelings.
2007-03-15 15:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋