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So here's the deal, these people in my class are really really steriotypical. I'm filipino... Today i did my homework & did my work, you do they make fun of me for that? I try to surpass the comments they make of me, but still i wonder...

2007-03-15 08:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

16 answers

I do the Dionne Warwick Scenario, "Walk On By"

2007-03-15 08:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0 0

Why do people always give the advice, "just ignore them and they will stop..." it NEVER worked for me, they just kept on making fun of me. Remember that success is the best revenge. I am now far wealthier, happier, and successful as an adult than those people who once made fun of me can ever hope to be. Knowing that these people will be losers some day, you can genuinely feel sorry for them and keep up the good work yourself. In the mean time, you can say, "I'm sorry you feel that way" or something and then move on.

2007-03-15 08:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by greengo 7 · 0 0

peer pressure is the demise of public government school.
it destroys lives and sometimes ends it for others.

the only that doesnt happen as you get older is that YOU learn to live with it and shake it off as you go.

for the most part, people usually dont see filipino, unless you make it an issue to force them to see. There are still the few lower life beings that will harass people that are different than they. You can report everything to school authorities and escelate the matter to bring more harassment, or you can wait till they corner you and fight back in self defense when they do come. then you can press charges against them with the police for assault and sue the parents, or have your parents sue them.
wickedness is NOT a total aspect of the filipino culture and in christianity. i have met many filipinos who will put to shame these other types of people because of their faith and righteousness. if you are a believer, Let your light shine, and maybe you can convince someone to change their life.

2007-03-15 08:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Priestcalling 3 · 0 0

I know exactly how you feel. I'm a minority female that lived in an all white town. You want to know what I did? Ignore them and I mean IGNORE. As if they don't exist. Just like walking through air. And always remember that in this world there will always be ignorant, narrow-minded people. Especially in high school. I'm sure you're a bright intelligent person and don't ever take any of their comments personally. I never belonged in any clique because I refused to conform to any stereotype. Just keep on studying and you'll be outta there and laughing in their faces in no time:)

2007-03-15 08:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by renegarderose 2 · 2 0

Whenever they say something to you just say to the "whatever", and adopt an I could care less attitude. In time the taunts will cease. Realize also that you are preparing yourself seriously for your future by being dilligent in your school work. It may come to pass that you will become financially successful in your career pursuit while they may end up pumping gas or managing a McDonalds.

2007-03-15 08:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I tease around a lot. Never in a mean way or to make someone feel bad. I have people come at me sometimes too. Rather than get mad or ignore them, make fun of yourself too. Make it fun rather than ridicule. They will eventually stop because they will not get anything out it. It may even help you make a few new friends.

2007-03-15 08:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

in lots of cases whilst human beings say "forget approximately approximately it" they certainly advise "do no longer enable it harm your emotions". additionally, some human beings think of arguing returned is "stooping to their point". They insult then you definately you certainly insult them. In some human beings's eyes, it would not make you to any extent further useful of a individual. regardless of the reality that, some human beings think of allowing human beings to handle you badly is worse. All bullies are diverse. some will end whilst they comprehend that they are able to't walk throughout you. some won't end till they become bored. Arguing returned could make it worse regularly using fact especially circumstances the harassment only multiplies and it finally ends up being an more desirable deal than mandatory.

2016-11-25 22:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by quire 4 · 0 0

To be honest, I highly doubt it is because of your completion of an assignment.
Most people ridicule others because they are ignorant of that person.
It is very hard to ignore insults, and tosay it does not bother us. To respond back is sinking to low self esteem.

But, maybe to get it to stop next time your in this position of ridicule the best way to respond is an educated way. Offer the commentor your assistance so they can complete their assignment, usually that will shut them up. Although be very kind in your wording so that it doesn't backfire on you.

2007-03-15 08:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by rose s 2 · 0 0

People who aren't doing well love to bring down those who are. Understand that . Act like you understand that. And remember---Success is the best revenge. What matters is, regardless of whom or what, you keep doing good for yourself. Now, when the losers start in on you, play dumb. Act like you don't understand a word they are saying, like they are not even speaking a language you understand. Don't speak, wrinkle your brow, tilt your head and look at them(if you have to) like they are speaking gibberish. Take the fun out of it for them. Be strong and go for yours.

2007-03-15 08:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's creepy. I have several Filipino friends and can't imagine making fun of them for that! You should just stare at them. It works. It unnerves everybody. Don't glare or smile, just stare with a straight mouth. I swear it works.

2007-03-15 08:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 1 0

Just think that this people doesn't deserve your attention. Continue doing your homework because at the end of the day, it's you who will have the last laugh.

2007-03-15 08:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0 0

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