2007-03-15 08:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by Concerned 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think I would look good dressed up as a prostitute.........she might though.
2007-03-15 08:13:13 · update #1
A romantic getaway!!!!
2007-03-15 08:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the 23 years. I will celebrate 7 at the end of this month and I have the same question. There are days when it is hard to keep the fire going and it takes work and time, something we don't always have. I get tired of the same routine and knowing when and how!! Sometime I feel like I need to go on a "secret" trip and then come back ready to go. However, I also think that the little voice in me might have trouble looking him in the eye when I got back. I wish I had an easy answer for you, but they say, marriage is not easy. People have given you some great answers, but you also have to realize, that most of them have mentioned taking a trip. That is great, but what do you do when it goes back to the same thing after you get back? There has to be solution for everyday. Good Luck to you and I hope the answer is found for you soon.
2007-03-15 15:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by oursnowbaby32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your wife meet you at a bar. Pretend you don't know one another. After a half hour of flirting casually with others, approach her with some cutesy pick up line and buy her a drink. Introduce yourself as someone different and vice versa. After you both have a good buzz going, ask her if she might be interested in going someplace more private. Then you can bring her to a hotel or motel room where you both lose all inhibitions. In the morning, get up and leave before her. Make sure to leave a sweet note trelling her you will call. Then in the future, call her as the new guy from time to time, and send her gifts or flowers from your alter ego. This used to work for me!
2007-03-15 15:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tuck little notes in his jacket pocket or lunch box. Call him at the office and whisper sweet nothings in his ear. When he comes home, rub his feet after a hard day, or give him a hot oil massage (warm up some baby oil on the stove or microwave). Have a "date night" once a week. Take turns to choose where you go on date night (to the movies, out to dinner, walk in the park). Take a weekend vacation to a local hotel and swim in the pool, relax, and get massages together. Good luck and God Bless. You should be proud of being together for 23 years! Keep up the good work.
2007-03-15 15:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations on being married for 23 years. It's great to see couples staying together that long these days.
I would advise you to go back to the things you both enjoy doing. Go on a romantic getaway, go on weekly dates, take dance lessons, go for long walks, etc. Keep it alive and interesting. And always remember how you fell in love. Maybe take a trip to where you first met, or your first date, 1st honeymoon, etc.
Good luck and hope you celebrate another 23 years!!!
2007-03-15 15:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take we'll say HIM out to dinner, and talk about reassure him your not looking or wanting to look for someone else. Explain you just want to restart your romance.
Discuss going away for a long weekend once a month. and have lots of mini dates. especially if your empty Nester's.
Talk about your fantasies, maybe introduce some role playing. Life is to short to be in the slow lane.
Hope this helps
2007-03-15 15:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a couples resort for a weekend like Caesars Pocono Resorts. My husband and I had such a good time reconnecting and just hanging out without the worries of home. We went when our second child was 2 and we felt we could leave her for a couple days, we had grown apart because of the kids and just life. Good luck!
www.CaesarsPoconoResorts.com
2007-03-15 15:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role play. Dress up as a prostitute and let your husband pick you up off the street corner.
2007-03-15 15:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up the communication and the s e x life. Keep up some dating (once a month or more) with just the two of you.
2007-03-15 15:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to spa resort. But you could do little things like put a card in a place he/she looks everyday just to say I love you. Do a chore for them that they hate to do. Little things mean so much.
2007-03-15 15:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by chrisisdifferent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... 23 years is really long time and you really need to know littlebit about KAMA SUTRA.
2007-03-15 15:26:16 · answer #11 · answered by charotar_green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋