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see this manager that i worked with is giving me
mix signals that tells me he is gay but also hes not gay but wants me to tell him that i am or just wants to friends he is way older than me in age but looks really young one time he literally bumped into me just to make me fall, he always jokes around me he stares at me sometimes & one time he sit next to me even though there where other chairs available. he tries to start conversations with me but when i tries speaking to him i freeze and cant speak & if i speak it sounds so quite. he sometimes smiles at me and expects me to smile back to know i am interested in him
but i get nervous and don't know what to do in that moment see i am still in the closet.

2007-03-15 07:52:36 · 17 answers · asked by Different Perspective 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

17 answers

SnoKer!!!!

2007-03-23 07:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ansre Man! 3 · 0 0

What is the difference between "straight" and "str8" other than one is spelled incorrectly?

The only way to know your manager's orientation is to ask him.

However, I would STRONGLY advise against pursing a relationship of a sexual nature with a co-worker, and especially a supervisor. It is a recipe for trouble.

2007-03-15 08:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Ask your manager if he wants to chill outside of work one day. Or ask if he has been in any other previous relationships and ask his partners names then that will tell you if he like chics or ****** or both.

2007-03-15 08:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by itsthebeesknees123 1 · 0 0

I think your manager is gay or bi. He's probably in the closet himself and is afraid to fully come out. from the info you gave i think he likes you but is just afraid.

2007-03-23 07:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca K 2 · 0 0

Office affairs are always a bad idea. Would you really enjoy being the boss' slut?

Be professional at all times.

2007-03-15 08:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 3 0

I would be very careful about this. Someone may consider this sexual harrasment.

If you really like him have an honest discussion with him outside of work. Tell him of your feelings for him and ask how he feels about you.

2007-03-15 07:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Louie 5 · 2 0

He has power over you.

Never play with people you work with.
Let it go. Danger. Or tell him.... give notice, and
if he asks why, tell him you want to fool around with him,
but you don't want to work with someone you play with.

2007-03-15 08:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

don't date or anything with people you work with.. he's probably gay or just really friendly. Use your gaydar and you'll know, but seriously find a different guy to be with!

2007-03-15 07:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jyse 6 · 3 0

I think you should go with it cautiously. If he smiles at you, than smile back. Otherwise if he is gay and he likes you, you should go for it.

2007-03-21 16:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0 0

if he knows you're gay, hes just trying to make you come out and humiliate you from your description.

2007-03-23 05:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what's the difference between straight and str8?

2007-03-15 07:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 3 0

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