Bunch of people say that when your young you cant fall in love, because you havent seen the different types of people, but i jus turned 16 and i been alot in one year, met diffferent guys and all playd me like i was a toy, but now i met a guy and its already 2 months and i know i'm in love, he's nothin like the other guys, he treats me the best and realli does care bout me, can this relli b it, or am i at that level where i think he the one but he turns out the b like the othas?
2007-03-15 07:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by Ur Lova 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Let the time answer your question.One day you will know whether the two of you are really meant to be or not.Just keep going.
2007-03-15 07:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be in real love, some of my friends met there husbands before they were 16, however it's more likely that your just excited that you have a guy who treats you better than the others did. Don't get to head-over-heels yet, if he's the one time will tell, in the mean time you have more important things to worry about like school. Just enjoy the realationship as is, and if you're still together in a few years and things are working out, than you have found the right guy and you will know for sure, without any doubts, and then you can move from there. Relationships take time, and two months you might have a general idea, but it's not enough time to know for sure. Good luck though.
2007-03-15 14:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by ClevelandSportsFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when i tell you this, it all ends when you get a little older, i met a guy that i swore i was in love with when i was 14 and we dated for 4 years, we spend every chance we could together, had a child together and adored eachother, he i felt was so much different i thought he would always be there, but it didnt end that way. He now lives 3 hours away with his wife and two children, ive been married to a man for 5 years who i can say is the love of my life. Things change, emotions change, situations change and in the end feelings change. Its just the way love and life go. Dont get your heart broken, ive been down that road and it hurts alot, and it takes alot to understand and get over.
2007-03-15 14:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the thing we forget as we get older is that we try out all sorts of "love" when we are young. There is "swept off your feet" love. There is the "friend that turns to more" love. There is the "totally love one another but hate each other too" love. Do I think this is your one true and forever love? No. Do I think that you care deeply for this young man, love the way he treats you and makes you feel? Yes. Enjoy the feelings you share with this young man (safely of course..birth control and condoms please if you decide to have sex) and if it ends, remember the good things about him and the good things about yourself when you were with him. As time passes, all these bits and pieces you take from each "love" will help you know when you have found the one "forever" love.
2007-03-15 15:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell deeply in love with my boyfriend when I was only 16. We ended up getting married when I was 20. Then we divorced but that was not necessarily because of our age, it was our maturity level, or lack thereof. I have been married to my present husband for 71/2 years and we're still going strong. And I knew that I would marry him within weeks of meeting him.
2007-03-15 16:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was 19
We knew each other for five years before I know I was truly in love with him
Two month is nothing. You should always be treated like a queen with any guy you like, and that like you.
He could be the one, but most people do not know enough about each other to know this
I would suggest to date him, have fun, enjoy your relationship and do not worry about being in love
Good luck
2007-03-15 14:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it's probably not because believe it or not you still don't know what you want-especially in a guy. You don't even know who you are at that age. I bet you think he's the one because of how better he treats you than the last jerks you dated and you just like being appreciated. Don't let your temporary feelings get the best of you, give it some time and think about it-then make conclusions.
2007-03-15 15:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by ANT-a-gonistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love, You're IN LOVE! It really doesn't matter how long you have been together. If you love and care about this person a lot then, so be it!! Just listen the people that are saying you are to young to be in love, don't listen because those are your feelings!
i hope i helped =]
2007-03-15 21:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little too young as in 2 months to be in love. He may turn out to be your husband or just a boy your done with in 2 weeks. Give it more time. Good Luck!!!!!!!
-Fredo
2007-03-15 14:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Alaina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not too young to be in love; your too young to be serious.
Does this young man have a job, own his own car, own his own house?
Remember; if your not old enough to live on your own and take good care of each other, then theres no point in being too serious. And if you truly love each other, you will wait for each other.
2007-03-15 15:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋