i had a miscarriage and my dr told me to get an ultrasound bc they need to see whats left inside the womb and i told my ex which he left me a couple of days ago after hitting me(read previous questions if u want to know what happened)he tells me that he doesnt care and that all he wants is to get the bill so he can pay it. i said ok i have an appointment on Monday Morning for the ultrasound. when i spoke to him he was just too cold when talking and acted like he didnt care...it so upsetting what can i do
2007-03-15 07:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It makes me so angry to know that there are people like your ex in the world. you are obviously going through something very painful. If I were you the first thing I would do is stop communication with him and see a counselor. If you do not have insurance there are several organizations that will help you pay for it. This is not the place for you to get the help you need...you need a professional to help you realize how special you are.
2007-03-15 07:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for all the horrible things it seems you are going though. I went through a m/c w/ a very loving and supporting husband and it was hard. I can't even begin to imagine your emotions.
Sounds like you should just take this as a blessing that you can get him out of your life for good now. I know that's probably easier said than done, but do what's best for you and your future. You need someone who would support you not hit you!
Please seek help.
2007-03-15 14:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm very sorry for your loss. Secondly, you need to try your best to get over this guy. He hit you, end of story. He sounds like a very very jealous and insecure person. That is a dangerous comination. If he truly cared for you he would want to help you through this difficult time. Actions speak louder than words my dear. He walked away when you needed him (not to mention the hitting). He's not worthy. Perhaps some of your church friends can be your support right now. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-15 15:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am very sorry for your loss and for what you are going through with that man. I will also tell you that maybe it was the best thing that happened to you (as horrible as this may sound) I don't mean to hurt you, but this guy sounds like a real scumbag who was probably gonna leave you on your own with the baby....
2007-03-15 14:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all contact with him. You don't want to expose yourself to someone who is hitting you, too cold, and who acts like he doesn't care (your words).
It wil be hard to resist the temptation to get in touch with him, but you must find the strength to stay far far away from him forever. He is not worthy of your time, and if you stay in touch, he will only get more violent and abusive.
Please get some help to get through this. Call the domestic violence hotline.
2007-03-15 14:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do. Just leave him alone. If you want him to pay the bill then have the office mail it to him, but you would be better off to just do it yourself and have no further contact with him.
2007-03-15 14:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself taken care of with the doctor, and then move on.
There is nothing else. Your ex isnt someone worth stressing yourself over. And certainly not someone worth procreating or copulating with.
2007-03-15 14:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE OF YOUR SELF FIRST. HE'S NOT WORHT WASTING YOUR TIME OVER. YOU CAN DO BETTER
2007-03-15 14:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by tinaguhc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋