how can i tell my mother and man that i'm preg.? my man and me had a ruff start with ma parents but they know how we feel bout each other and my man wants one but he said if i was that he would want me to have an abortion so i can finish school but he'd b the happiest if i was... how can i tell them?
2007-03-15 07:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by Ur Lova 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we was safe and errthng, i dont want you people to start lookin down on me, cuz no one knows whats going, on, your only reading a little paragraph of the story
2007-03-15 07:54:12 · update #1
Talk to your Mom first . She'll be shocked at first, but willing to help out-whether it's going to the doctor, or just talking. Even if you r guy says he's ready for the news, he won't be (that's why you need to talk to your mom first). Get his opinion about what's going on and what may happen, but remember, you are carrying the baby, therefore it's your decision. If you want to raise the baby, I'm sure your Mom will help as much as she can, but if you don't think you can raise a kid (and it is hard-but very rewarding), consider placing it up for adoption. They're alot of couples who would love a child of their own and can't have one. Just remember that pregnancy isn't going to keep you from school.
2007-03-15 09:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by CruelChick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope that you're not in HS, And I really really hope that your "man" is the appropriate age.
1st.. Are you sure?? Have you had an ultrasound yet.. has he seen it?? if he has then there is no way that he would want you to get an abortion.
2nd. Mom..... if you're in HS... you just need to sit down with her, remind her how long you 2 have been going out (hopefully for a bit) and that you reallly care for each other.. I deally you should both tell her.. A uniter front will make her feel better. Let her know that her daughter is not standing alone in all this.
Then just tell her.
2007-03-15 07:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not telling us that you are still in High School. Just tell them and wait for the debris to settle. If your man is prepared to marry you then finish out this year and come back after the child is born to finish school. You'll need to find a baby sitter, but you should have thought of that before you started having unprotected sex.
2007-03-15 07:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by St N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and attempt to get her to consult her dad and mom... by ability of her talking to them provides her more beneficial thoughts on wether or no longer she needs to save it or maybe adoption she has more beneficial thoughts now than she will be able to later. Her dad and mom will discover out ultimately basically make certain that's now to not overdue. And be a sturdy buddy and attempt to help/training guide her to make the options she needs and not in any respect what everyone "needs" her to do because she am has to handle it later on in existence no count number what she makes a decision... and prefer the lady earlier suggested her dad and mom will strengthen to the conception and likely there's a chance they are going to free it in spite of the undeniable fact that the received't damage her or the newborn. So inspire her to make her judgements which will earnings her in the accurate.
2016-12-02 01:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't get an abortion. I'm sure when he sees the ultrasound, he won't want you to. Just sit down at dinner or on a date and tell him. Now, your mom, if you live with her, it might be a little harder, but you know her more than I do. Tell her that you love her and have some news and ask her not to freak. Good luck!
2007-03-15 07:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit them down and talk to them They may freak out yea i've been in this situation i got pregnant when i was 13 and now im 15 and my daughter will be a year. And its your decision about what you wanna do yes its hard having a child so young but i love her just stay in school they have programs for you im sure good luck on every thing you do!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 07:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by heather w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have be honest and tell the both of them what is going on . and I really pray that you do not get an abortion if you decide that you can not give this baby what it needs then please consider adoption . I know it will be scary at first but you might try telling your man first then maybe you can both be a united front ofr force when you talk to your mom . but you need to talk to your mom and be honest and upfront with her .
2007-03-15 08:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you get that abortion and focus on your school work
2007-03-15 14:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellllll ummm if you just had sex with him because he was cute but didnt luv him then you have a problem. if you love him and he loves you suck it up and tell him.
2007-03-18 13:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sizzl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋