Most heterosexual couples will never say thier partner can be the only person that can fullfilll all thier emotional needs in a relationship...Since the sexual practices of a hetero couple covers everything a same sex couple might do, plus more this area of a relationship doesn't cover the entire need of the relationship although very important.
So are you saying *Maybe* being Gay you can be totally be emotionally and sexually content with no other influence of the opposite sex? because I would say for 90% of hetero couples this IS NOT the case...
Your food for thought?
2007-03-15 07:23:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No.
Sorry.
You continue to try and differentiate between heterosexual and Homosexual relationships and simply can't see that the physical is not the basis of the relationship, it is merely an extension of the inner emotional connection.
When you continue to insist there is a difference in the influences people bring to a relationship based only on their gender you are limiting and stereotyping the types of influences a person can have upon another. Your stereotypes discount the entire possibility of a person being able to fulfill another's needs simply because of their gender therefore until you can see that the assumption your stereotype perpetuates, you will NEVER be able to understand.
2007-03-15 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little confused. You seem to think that being gay or lesbian is about sexual orientation only. It's actually about genetics - what you are born to be - and life style orientation. Gay couples and heterosexual couples have the same ups and downs in their relationships. They argue about money, and child care and jobs, etc. No one person can ever meet all the needs of another person - gay or hetero. The "key" to what makes people gay or straight is the human genetic make-up of an individual. A person doesn't wake up one day and say, "I think I'll be gay" or "i've decided to be heterosexual".
2007-03-15 07:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by kathy s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
being monogamous or polygamous has nothing to do with sexual orientation. some people want a relationship with only one person, while others want and/or need multiple partners for emotional and/or sexual needs.
i know many people who are straight, gay and bi who are monagamous.. likewise, i know people who are straight, gay and bi who are polygamous.
the sad issue is that people pretend they want a monagamous relationship just so they can try to fit into society, even though they really want to be polygamous.. and in the end, then cheat and hurt their partner.
2007-03-15 08:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby,......my Locksmith didn't issue me a "Key" for this question. Either you're Homo or Hetro, but there are some Hetros that cross over the Homo tracks. As in Homos crossing the Hetro Tracks.......it's denial.
2007-03-15 07:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bygtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexuality is a W I D E spectrum. Not EVERYONE is absolutely one thing. So far I am... one thing.
2007-03-15 07:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by front door 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
id put money on that, sure
2007-03-15 07:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋