im still a virgin i dont finger my self but i do play with my clitoris and i orgasm easly ...but wen im with my bf and he does it and goes down on me i cant seem to climax :S...why is tat we havent had sex with each other yet ether
2007-03-15 07:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. "Going down on you" is sex. Oral sex IS sex. Tell yourself what you want. Would be like an axe murder saying decapitating someone is just removing their head not killing them. You can't get to the big 'O' with him could be because of not hitting the right spot, the right way at the right tempo. Or it could be that you are not into it totally in your mind. Maybe you have reservations because you feel it will lead to you losing your virginity and he is not the right one to own such a priceless gift. Because once you give it, he owns that part of you forever even if he goes straight to the locker room and made you seem like a loose s**t, he owns it, you can never take it back from him. So maybe the fact you can't truly get in the moment is he is not the one.
2007-03-16 10:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say you are not having Sex with him yet, then how do you know if you can or cannot have an Orgasm with him or not. If you mean when he touches you in certain places, you do not have one, then that is Normal. It Takes Women alot of Foreplay to actually be able to reach the big O. I have found that if I use a C*** Vibrator along with my Man, that I can have an Orgasm every single time. It always leaves you looking forward to the next time. If you are under 18, you should Not be posting such questions.
2007-03-23 14:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little confused with what sex is first of all. I don't think my wife would like it if I went out and got oral favors from someone else. I think this is sex. So with that being said. It sounds like you are too young to be doing what you are doing and you should wait until marriage anyway.
2007-03-23 10:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by safetyusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 18, you should not be doing that at all.
2007-03-23 09:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by kmf77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want to have sex and risk bringing children into the world from an illiterate like you? If he is eating you than I would consider that sex. The problem is all in your head. I would forget about boys for you seem way too young and immature. Get through school first and take plenty of English classes.
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2007-03-15 14:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
He needs practice going down on you. He will get better, if he wants to. And if he doesn't want to he is lame and you need a new bf.
2007-03-22 01:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Karen L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ORAL SEX it is sex but anyway maybe he's not what you're looking for maybe deep down you would be happier if he was a woman
2007-03-23 09:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by dopey p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be posting this, and if you can't spell "when", and "that" you should hardly be expecting him to make you have the Big O --Okay?? Now, go to your backpack and get your homework out and do it... :)
2007-03-23 12:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, YOU know how to touch yourself where it feels the best, maybe you should "help" him...show him where to touch you or tell him what feels best...or, maybe you just don't like an "audience"...?
2007-03-15 14:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ridiculous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's not doing something right for your body or you don't want to be with him
be glad you haven't had sex with each other yet, it seems you're not ready
2007-03-15 14:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋