i feel bad for him but i am woren out of ben taking care of him and the kids , i am lonly
2007-03-15 07:14:39 · 10 answers · asked by blue bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what you need is a long day of relaxing! call a family member or a really close friend to see if they can take over for a few hours so you can o get you hair done, tanning, nails, massage, whatever! you need a break!
2007-03-15 07:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by sexy momma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Taking care of a loved one can be very hard and time consuming. There are services available to you through your local social services agency. Depending on the state that you live in you may be eligible for them. Everyone needs a little break here and there . Have you called any respite agencies? or contacted the Dept. of people with disabilities? They may be able to point you in the right direction . I wish you and your family good luck ...
Also , to the people with the rude comments , you know , she probably married him because she loves him , and yes her vows did say through sickness and health , but people do get tired after a while . She is only 1 person and she also has children. You would not like people to say things such as you did if you were in the same situation. Grow Up .. This is real life!.
2007-03-15 10:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by pure_sweetness1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just need to take some time for yourself. Set aside some time everyday just for you. No interruptions. Take some time to just chill. Soak in a hot tub, give yourself a pedicure, read a book, listen to some music, lay on a blanket under a tree in the park, etc. You get the idea. Take some time to decompress.
2007-03-15 07:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult. If you're religious, pray. Get a caregiver & take some time out for yourself. If you can't afford one, get a friend or neighbor to help or get government assistance. You will start to loose your mental and physical health also. You don't have to necessarily cheat, but take time out for you.
2007-03-15 07:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by blank 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, think about this...........i have musclar dystrophy and was diagnosed before my wife and i got married, and that was 12 years ago, she still loves me and yes on occasion, she helps me out.......now i understand your being worn out, but is there anyway you could take a break for say a weekend and he be ok? yes, i know nothing about your situation, but there is always someone to help....all you have to do is ask....if you want to know how my muscular dystrophy is effecting our relationship please write back
2007-03-15 07:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of thought everything out before you decided to say yes and marry him.....
2007-03-15 07:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your plight, but what is your question?
2007-03-15 07:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but it was your decision to, and you just have to handle it
2007-03-15 07:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you signed yourself up for it. you knew the consequences when you met him.
2007-03-15 07:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by rowanhood92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shouldnt of got married then, through sickness and health..... no? what if you were sick
2007-03-15 07:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋