At the moment I am constantly flirting/being nice to 3 of my favourite men I see almost everyday.
because I dont want to get my hopes up for just 1 guy.
its been 2 months now.
but things dont EVER get serious,and we are just plain friends,IS IT BECAUSE IM NICE?
I HATE to make THE FIRST MOVE,on friends
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-03-15 07:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Are you waiting for any one of them to make a move? Or are you interested in one in particular? That's the first thing you've got to figure out.
Second.... From a guy's point of view, a friend who flirts was not always on my romance radar when I was single. (Guys are not the sharpest crayons in the box about those things.)
If you have one guy you're interested in developing something more, just up your flirtation meter a little. You don't have to overtly say anything. Put a hand on his arm; stand a little closer to him when you're talking; make him more aware of you as a woman. Then, let his hormones do the work.
2007-03-15 07:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shaman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should overcome your ‘not wanting to make the 1st move’ hang-up. Take control of your life instead of waiting for life to happen. If you know what you want in a relationship, start querying the men to see if their opinions match yours.
And then, being straight-forward and honest, inform the like-minded man/men about your favorable assessment for compatible and ask if he/they are interested in taking the relationship to the next level.
As a man, I would very much appreciate your honesty and candor. Also, I find confidence and assertiveness in women to be very sexy.
2007-03-15 15:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by steve_monroe_2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk less. Listen more. Guys love a good listener. Think about it,
how many of your close friends are good listeners and how many are long winded. Let your flirtations be subtle-just enough but not too much. Also each guy might just think you are interested in one of the other two.
2007-03-15 14:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Augustine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, make up your mind on trying to be with ONE. then go for it. otherwise, enjoy the friendships
2007-03-15 14:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i always say this to people that have thses kind of problems.... pretend like you dont need ANY guy..they'll come your way them selves....it always works...
2007-03-15 14:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋