how would you handle it
2007-03-15 07:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
well there are other things one an do to be sexually sastified, i think if one truly loves their husband then even though sex is important you can still do things "sexually" together if he cant perform the act of penetration etc. you can use devices to please yourself and he can watch and you can still have intimate things like hugging and kissing- i know it is not the same but i just feel that is what i would want to do if my hubby could not perform...
2007-03-15 07:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married yet, but i am engaged to an amazing man. if he could no longer perform sexually we'd get through it. There are a lot of ways to receive sexual pleasure but even if none of those were possible with him, I'd STILL stay with him. There are more important things in life... you don't abandon someone just because they have had the misfortune of losing their sexual abilities.
2007-03-15 14:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by kerri c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are other ways to be intimate other than sex. How old are you? There are also other parts of the body that can be used besides the penis and the mind is also very important.
2007-03-15 14:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie, FNP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way I would want him to handle it if I couldn't have sex anymore. I would try please him any way possible. There's more to marriage than sex. That's not the reason I married him anyway.
2007-03-15 23:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by ashley s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just about getting it up there are other things. There are many things you can do besides the basic. Try oral, vibrator, etc and you can still pleasure him by oral or visual stimulation. Remember sex isn't everything.
2007-03-15 14:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mybabyboy♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a yung un when you have been married thirty years to the same person there are alot more things than sex to bring you joy to your life
2007-03-15 14:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow did I write this? Gently. It's not his fault.
2007-03-15 14:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is other ways he can please you, you just got to try everything in the book.
2007-03-15 14:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by joanne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋