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Hi,
I am about to decide whether to get married or not.
I have a few problems.
1. I haven't felt Love for the last 10 years.
2. I do get Lust lots of it which I manage to satisfy with office girls and friends. In my line of work there is no shortage of them.
3. The girls I hit on are usually the ones who dress hot and who look pretty.
4. Sometimes I have also successfully hit on some babes who were total strangers.
I need to marry because its expected of people to marry when they get old. Should I marry at all in view of the above problems. I doubt if I can change my traits.
Ravi

2007-03-15 06:37:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

but really i will soon get old. Now here is a question to men. Had you been like me would you not also hit on all the babes?

2007-03-15 07:11:53 · update #1

Thank you for your comments. Is there anyone out there who too is like me and who changed for the sake of marriage?

2007-03-16 08:59:05 · update #2

21 answers

Marriage is defintely not for you at this time. Please do not attempt to get married--you will only end up hurting the person you marry.

2007-03-16 20:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0 0

There is no law to getting married and in your case I would not. If you are a player and don't feel you can be monogamous than marriage will be a disaster.

You can still have a full life even when your old through friends and family. You can be the cool uncle.

Unless you feel true love that will change your ways, don't get married.

Good luck.

2007-03-15 13:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO!!!!! you should only get married because you love someone. Not because you think you "should". There is no reason to bring an innocent wife into the mix if you are only marrying for "tradition" sake. That's not right and it's not fair.

2007-03-15 13:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by mamaduckie05 2 · 2 0

Please dont get married until your lust joins with love for ONE person. It can happen tomorrow, and that could be wonderful. Or it may never happen, and that's ok. Marriage isnt a requirement to live a happy and complete life.

2007-03-15 13:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1 0

Who said marriage was mandatory? Given you are happy living the swinging singles life, live that way until you find the one you want to be with and can be true to for the rest of your life.

2007-03-15 13:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

If you get married solely for the reason that you're growing old and that it's expected of you, frankly I feel it's not going to work out.

2007-03-15 13:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by maverick_youth 4 · 1 0

From your Exploits I feel you shouldn't get Married.
Turn Professional instead.
With regards to your additional question:
Hope you always got time to put the condom on, otherwise with AIDS striking you will never come to know what Old-Age would be.

2007-03-15 14:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0 0

You will never be happy living with just ONE P U S S Y . I am not happy. I wish I had never married.

2007-03-15 13:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by rocky 1 · 0 0

If you are hitting on women, you are not ready to get married.

2007-03-15 13:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jay C 1 · 0 0

Do not get married you are not ready because you say you wont change you know yourself better than anyone.

2007-03-15 13:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 1 0

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