2007-03-15 06:36:48 · 13 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! Not unless a judge orders you to.
2007-03-15 06:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics say that you if you move out of the house, you will have less chance of reconciling. You may not want to reconcile and only want to stay in the house. Lots of divorced couples continue to live in the same house for financial reasons, or even emotional reasons such as for the sake of the children. Its not necessarily the healthiest option, but some have made it work. Look hard at your resons for wanting to stay in the house after the divorce and who will you both make it work. How will you or the other person find closure to the relationship and how will you start new relationships with the other person around? Very trickly. Pray about the divorce first.."Love Never Fails" and God can heal all wounds and that is much easier than leaving the house..
2007-03-15 13:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by monarchministries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you can both get along and don't try to have a wife one day and a room mate the next day. If you have children and you can't afford to live alone at the time the divorce is being waited on , then I see no reason you can't stay together but in separate bedrooms and you keep the kids when he goes out he returns the favor. If both of you agree you don't love each other anymore, then you can get along while the divorce is being processed. I see no reason why you can't share the home until the divorce is granted. remember at onetime they were your best friend and can get along with your ex to be better than another woman and her kids trying to live together to make ends meet.
2007-03-15 13:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who is going thru this right now. Thru the court order it states that if they can get along while it's finalised then that is fine. But he chosed to leave because it's hard on him seeing her and no being able to communicate. Plus they have a child together and she leaves the majority of the evening with the child and he wouldn't say anything not to stir crap up.. but if you feel that you can communicate and have the divorce for your own good then i don't see why you should leave. But if there were problems in the marriage like violence or anything then i think it will be the best thing that can get done.
Good luck
2007-03-15 13:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - it would nice that both of you can handle living in the same house and go thru a divorce
2007-03-15 15:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way not unless you get a court order. A lot of guys think they do because the woman told them but its your house as much as it is hers.
2007-03-15 13:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to, legally, but usually one person does anyway. I think there is a precedence about if you can't afford other housing, you can still share the same house.
2007-03-15 13:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but why would you want to stay..
in CT you have to go through a 90 day separation, then you must sleep apart but you can see each other, its a cooling off tI'me that they hope will bring you back together, im sure every state is different
2007-03-15 13:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my ex hubby for a few months...he had a gf I had a bf...we got along better when we weren't married than we ever did while we were married!!!!
2007-03-15 14:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you're making the mortgage payment or paying for household utilities.
2007-03-15 13:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Valkanas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋