i have a fewe friends at work that know my husband i are trying to have a baby, well a bunch (3)are very close ot em very excited i think more than myself and have told ppl that i mayb pregnant but i wont even know until the first of april what should i do, i will feel stupid if i am not.. shouldi just go along with it until i do?
2007-03-15 06:36:13 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i never even said anything they knew because we are very close, i think i should have never said anything now im beating myself
2007-03-15 06:41:36 · update #1
They're just excited for you. If it doesn't happen this month they'll still be supportive and happy for you. No need to feel stupid.
2007-03-15 07:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do this when trying. If your not don't worry because they are just being supportive of you and will be whether you are pregnant or not. I would advise not telling anyone until you are definitely pregnant and at least more then three months. I had a girl at work telling everyone because she was so excited but when she miscarried it was so hard for her having others come up and ask when the baby is due. For your own peace of mind keep things to yourself until you are far enough along for others to tell on their own. Good luck.
2007-03-15 13:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by bvtc6677 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't beat your self up for it. My husband and I tried for a while, and everyone knew it. I was getting pretty upset because i thought i couldn't get pregnant. But then a year and half later, now i am knocked up, and waiting for these four more months to hurry up.
When it's time, it's time. They will be supportive whatever happeneds. And if they aren't. They aren't good friends.
2007-03-15 14:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until April comes and you find out, if you are then great. If not just wait until they bring it up again, and say no not yet. Next time try to keep it on the DL.
2007-03-15 13:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ELW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax it sounds like your worried for nothing. Yes you are trying and with trying sometimes you have to try again and I'm sure your friends understand that. Don't stress over this. just keep trying that's the fun part anyway.
2007-03-15 13:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by lola1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell them I want to be certain before I get my hopes up. I appreciate that you are excited for me and want me to be pregnant, but let's wait to pass the word til we know for sure. I'm certain they will understand and do things your way. I'm mom to 3..good luck and here's hoping the test is positive!!
2007-03-15 13:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to stop yourself from being embarrassed if it come back neg. just tell them well not this month but we are sure having fun trying! even if you feel depressed it will save face with them, just try to keep people out of your personal life, you don't really want to tell people too much about your personal life because it seems that they are always gonna be nosey.
2007-03-15 13:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't say anything let them bring it up and if asked just tell them the truth and just don't try to let your anxiety get the best of you until you fully know. i hope that you are though i know it can be a real let down to find out you didn't.
good luck!
2007-03-15 13:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt stress about it, because stressing will cause your period to be late in the event that you arent pregnant, and if they are close friends they will be there to support you either way. i think it's great that you have friends to help you on this journey. lean on them when ever you need to
2007-03-15 13:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lindy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bequiet till you know for sure
2007-03-15 13:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by da_last_donpapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋