ok here goes.... my friend just made 22 and she has 2 guy friends... 1 is 20 years old and they had sex 4 the 1st tyme last month, she may be pregant 4 him.... the next 1 is 29 years old and she is really in love with him and she wants to marry him, the guy who she slept with and may be pregant 4 happened as she and her 29 year old b/f was going through some problems...
my question is what is she to do?? any advice on what i can do to help her??
2007-03-15 06:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by MZ.SMOOTH 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I agree with the first comment but also, she needs find out if she is pregnant. Then if she is, she needs to be completly honest with both guys, especially the 29 year old, otherwise it will never work out.
Don't even bother reading the post below mine. It's one thing to be pro0choice it's another to be an @$$hole.
2007-03-15 06:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Amy H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be opened & honest with her 29 year old boyfriend because hiding the truth will only hurt things. If he really loves her he'll accept her even though she made this mistake.
Also tell her to make sure that this 20 year old guy helps to support the baby if she really is pregnant.
2007-03-15 06:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First she needs to find out for sure if she is pregnant. Then she needs to be honest with the guys. If she is pregnant she needs to find out who the father is and go from there. Good Luck
2007-03-15 07:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do is first find out if she is pregnant... second, be honest and deal with the fall out. There are always consequenses to our actions. Being honest and dealing with them with maturity is what shapes us into responsible adults.
2007-03-15 07:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to tell the truth if he loves you he will stick by you no matter what
2007-03-16 00:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by nekas_bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tell the truth 2 both of them and let them deal with it and if they truly love her they wont let it bother them of him.
or secondly say that its the other guys (she loves) and pretend its his and live happily ever after.(if she can live with a terrrible lie like that (i couldnt))
2007-03-15 06:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by skellyskeldon 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Kill the baby if she is pregnant .No other solution .
2007-03-15 06:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by sako 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
pray.....and make better desisions
2007-03-15 06:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by da_last_donpapi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋