I am trying to understand this.....if you have slept with women in the past....then with a man....what makes sex with a man better.....hence you claim to be gay instead of straight......How come you are turned on by men verses women....all answers are appreciated!!!!!!
2007-03-15 06:31:56 · 21 answers · asked by china 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sex with a woman can be great, particularly if you love her. But, after a while (years), it can become rather boring. The gay side of me loves the male equipment. And, besides, they can do you, or you can do them, or each other. What could be better than that? Of course, that strange attraction we feel is something we are born with.
2007-03-15 06:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by EasyRider 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex with a man isn't better, just different. If I thought sex with men or women was better I wouldn't be bi, I'd be straight or gay. It is precisely because I am attracted to personalities rather than exclusively to body types that I respond to both sexes, and can have a wonderful and totally satisfying time with either.
2007-03-15 06:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I had the answer to that one I'd be worth millions and smarter than all the scientists out there. The short answer is --I don't know--I just know that sex with a man was everything, sex with a woman was a game I was playing trying to convince myself that I was straight...men made the fireworks go off.
2007-03-15 06:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here are a few answers -
1) another man knows exactly what is going on, and can communicate things easier using commonly known terms, emotions, and physical feelings
2) it is much more of a masculine act
3) whom one is sexually excited by is NOT a choice. It's what happens emotionally and physically (if you know what I mean) during attraction. Why would anyone want to deny or go against this?
What is this "claim to be gay" malarkey in your question? People are either LGBT or they are not - and this is established at birth. Some people take more experimenting, others take more time, to understand their true, natural, sexual orientation.
2007-03-15 06:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is better with a man because I'm not turned on by women; hence i have no desire to have sex with a women. I don't know exactly why.
i guess bisexuals have a different criteria, than body type for getting aroused.
2007-03-15 06:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by robert2020 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're coming at this subject from a false premise. Sex is not what makes us gay, our emotional and physical attraction does. I can have sex with a woman, but I can never be in love with a woman. The sex part, although fun, enjoyable and loving, is not the defining characteristic of who we are. I would in fact feel very sorry for anyone who did identify themselves solely on their sex act.
2007-03-15 07:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with women, to me, is like a pleasant physical exercise. Like swimming a few laps.
Sex with men, however, provided a hot spark I was always missing w/ women. It was like, 'Oh my GOD! Now I know why people like sex!!!' Kissing a girl in high school was always kind of weird for me. I thought, 'okay, I guess I'm supposed to do this now...' But the first time I kissed another guy in college it was like bells went off in my head. I wanted to kiss him and kiss him for a very long time.
Which is just what I did.
2007-03-15 07:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by pasdeberet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm tough to answer if YOU hadn't been there.
I've never had the desire to sleep with a woman so I haven't... ever.
And b4 u ask the obvious my dear sweet straight brothers, let me ask YOU, "if u haven't slept with a man how do u know you wouldn't like it?"
anyway...
A lot of gay men sleep with women in their past because they feel the pressures of culture to do so because they are not accepted any other way...
So... there u r.
2007-03-15 06:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by front door 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuals are not converted from women to men or vise versa. It just means we can be in a monogamous relationship with either sex. One time a bisexual man maybe with a man. His next relationship maybe with a women, The next a women then after that if he finds a man whom he finds he has feelings for then them. Its alright to find the good in either sex. I have no preference. I enjoy men and women equally. They both have very good traits.
2007-03-15 06:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of it extremely is an undesirable generalization. i'm gay and that i've got a lot of straight away acquaintances who're thoroughly cool with me being gay. some straight away adult men are homophobic, in particular using fact the belief of doing something sexual with a guy seems distant places or disgusting to them. in many cases its only bigotry nevertheless- the way people have been raised, in all probability their faith- oh, and gay adult men are ordinary objectives for the douchebags to make relaxing of.
2016-10-18 11:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋