I've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and things are still as great as they were in the beginning. I moved away from all my friends to London (to be with him, but to also start a new job) but I'm really lonely. I don't want to depend on him all the time either. The thing is everyone at my work is old so when it's the end of the day he goes to the pub with all his work friends and i just have to go home, because i haven't made any friends here. I've got loads of friends spread out all over the place...but it seems that since we've been seeing each other I don't make friends as easily. I'm really lonely! please help
2007-03-15 06:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to find a hobby/activity to do that would allow you to make some friends. Or see about going to the pub with him sometimes.
2007-03-15 06:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that you already see the root of the problems. You are in a strange place all alone basically. Your boyfriend should try to include you more. You should definately try and develop even a couple of friendships. You have to. I think in time it will all work out. It just seems strange now.
2007-03-15 06:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the look of things, you have just moved into this location newly and you have your guy to keep you temporarily occupied. Do not worry as this is just transient and as you make new friends, the loneliness melts away.
However, discuss this with your guy and ask him to stay around a little but you can also join friends online. It helps.
2007-03-15 06:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to want the affection of your boyfriend at the cost of the better good for yourself. Striving so hard to get to the sunshine amongst all the clouds. Look in the mirror and ask yourself this, "Is what I am sacrificing for him worth what I am doing to me?" Then "you" decide what is best.
2007-03-15 06:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by writethewrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, im sorry to hear this, why dont you ask him to ask his friends, if they could bring there girlfriends, or sisters or any kind of female company for you to meet, then the nights that he goes outwith his friends you could meet the spouses and enjoy also, i really hope you get this sorted, as its horrible being lonely for friends and youll end up never going out, unless with your partner, i do hope this helps and good luck!!!
2007-03-15 06:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by fay y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart the best friend you could have is yourself. Anyone else you have is a blessing. Just make sure thats where you want to be.
2007-03-15 06:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Forbidden1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try planning a little dinner party and invite some people from your job,also tell them to come with two to three people and let him know how you feel about the problem.hope it work out..
.......vikkie.........
2007-03-15 06:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Me(Fuck a Mr.Rhodes) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mixed feelings are normal but sounds like you need more attention than you are getting in your current situation tell him.
2007-03-15 06:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rich G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go with him?
2007-03-15 06:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing something you find interesting........
2007-03-15 06:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋