2007-03-15 05:41:14 · 9 answers · asked by d h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yeah sure it is as long as he didn't abuse you. I say you should look at how he act's toward you while pregnant. If him or his family don't look like their doing anything for you and the baby and is stressing you out, and he doesn't look like he cares, then unless you have no place to stay ok try to put up with him. It all depends on your situation.
2007-03-15 06:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get involved with the other parent again would not be a good choice IMO. There was a reason that things didn't work out the previous time around, it is likely that they won't work out this time either. The difference is that things will be more stressful and there is more at steak this time around. And, if you do manage to make it as a couple until the baby is born and then suddenly things take a turn for the worse, it is likely that then there would be violence/arguing in front of the child. Not a good environment.
I do encourage you to be civil to each other for the sake of the child, and let him be involved with the baby. And please, try to make things easy for all of you, don't make it a my way or the highway situation, as long as the child is not being hurt or in danger, and you can see that the child's needs are being met when with the father, by this I mean, he may not do things such as changing the baby just so, but if he is trying, let him do it his way, for the sake of their relationship.
Best of luck to all of you.
2007-03-15 14:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on what went wrong with you and the dad to begin with. If he has really bad qualities that you wouldn't want to expose your kid to, like lying, manipulating, violence, etc, then I would just say go on your own. If you would never consider being with that guy again except for the baby, it's probably not a good idea to get back together since it will probably just make for a worse breakup when the baby is already attached to both of you. On the other hand, if you think there's really a chance that you two can do well together and it's a safe situation for you, then maybe it's worth a try. My best advice would be think about what you really want for your baby and if the father is going to help that happen or not.
2007-03-15 13:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lamborama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can try. But, you have to look back and see why you broke up in the first place. Is it worth the headache and heartache to go through all that again? Would you just be better off being a single mom? Don't go back to a bad relationship, just so you can have a partner.
2007-03-15 12:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by zsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and really want to be with him, then of course. If there were problems in the relationship, though, like abuse or anything else, you don't want to be in a relationship with him. The only problem is that (if you are a teenager) some boyfriends just decide to break up with their girlfriend when they find out she is pregnant, because they aren't ready to be a father and don't want to deal with that.
2007-03-15 16:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by daniellelaura118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No things will not get ANY better because of baby.. Its sad and unfortunate when babies parents are separated. But getting back togethr because of the baby DOES NOT work for long.. Sorry. I did it and was a big mistake. But you can be single and have a GREAT child too.
2007-03-15 13:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to. Dont get back with him because of the baby.
2007-03-15 13:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by halfdemonrenilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, unless addiction, abuse or adultery were the reason you broke up in the first place.
2007-03-15 12:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ya, you still need to have a civil relationship with him for your childs sake
2007-03-15 12:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋