ok soo i told my ex that i might be prego... and he fliped and told me he was not ready for a kid and has to much goin for him right now!
I wasnt even goin to tell him till i reallly no
(he really hurt me when we broke up, like bad, and dont want to see him... it will hurt to much)
idn what to bo... he said it will mess up him like like woow and needs to no asap soo he can tell him parents.... doent he no that i have it worse then him..... im still in high school he is in college
He is 19
Im 17
2007-03-15 05:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't worry about your feelings be a little hurt, no offense. At least he is not screaming at you saying it is not his or to have an abortion. It sounds like if he wants to know so he can tell his parents that he is willing to take responsibility. This isn't a competition on who has it worst I am afraid. It is probably not a good spot for either of you to be in, but you guys need to be mature and work this out. His initial reaction may not have been what you were hoping for, but he was probably in shock. Also, remember you have had more time to adjust to this possibility, he just found out. Give him some time for things to set it and in the meantime take a test and find out if you really are pregnant.
2007-03-15 05:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is "17" a legal age in your state?
Otherwise, he could face rape charges.
Look, don't get bent out of shape for his response.
BOTH OF YOU were bozos for NOT using protection during sex.
Pregnancy aside, did it ever occur to you that either of you could pass along STD's to each other?
Come on, this is the 21st Century.
Let's stop with the "oh, boo-hoo, I might be a preggo unwed teen".
You BOTH are responsible if a baby is born or you two get a disease.
If you think you're big enough to have sex then you're big enough to start acting with SOME degree of responsibility.
Grow up, dammit!
2007-03-15 12:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he had that much going for him right now, it shouldn't be a big deal. If he's going to impregnate someone that young, then obviously he figured he was mature enough the handle the consequences of his actions. Right? If you are unable or unwilling to care for the child, there are many, many deserving families who would love to give your child a great home. Give him one chance. If he can't handle it, tell him to get lost. If you are pregnant, good luck with you pregnancy.
2007-03-15 12:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off congratulations to you for possibly being pregnant. Unfortunately, you are so young and so is he. But the truth of the matter is, you guys should have thought about that. With having sex, these things are a possibility and if you weren't ready for a baby, maybe you guys weren't ready for sex in the first place. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
2007-03-15 12:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Mama of One♫ 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well this is what happen when kids have unprotected sex! Why do you think you are prego? Did you miss your period, or are you just freaking out because he broke up with you and you want him back?
Stay in school kid and get and education!
2007-03-15 12:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should have thought about that before you had all the unprotected sex. And whatever you do, STAY IN SCHOOL!!
2007-03-15 12:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by H57heiny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talke to your parent,you will get more suport and help
2007-03-15 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, um....worry about what kind mom you would be with your spelling and grammar "skills". I think you need to switch high schools.
2007-03-15 12:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋