As i am new in this school , all r not as friendly with me as they r with each other . i want them to b impressed by me and give me correct position in them ...
2007-03-15 04:49:15 · 16 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be yourself.
While it may be a bit lonely to begin with, it will be more rewarding to you in the long run as the friends you develop will like you for who you really are not the mask you will portray if popularity is your only consideration.
Because you are new, they are reluctant to bring you into their circle of friends. Take the time to get to know them.
"Correct position" as you have phrased it seems to sound like you think they should give you something you haven't earned.
They need to get to know you over time, just as you need to select your friends over time from the kids in your new school.
Fanny Brice, who was an entertainer with the Zigfeild Follies many years ago said
"LET THE WORLD KNOW YOU AS YOU ARE, NOT AS YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE, BECAUSE SOONER OR LATER, IF YOU ARE POSING, YOU WILL FORGET THE POSE, AND THEN WHERE ARE YOU?"
Good luck!
2007-03-15 04:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by stonechic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heyy!! I am 13. and I have the same problem. If you really wanna make some frends be urself but don't just make a few exceptions about being urself. Iike I read a lot but I kinda put my book down and strted to try and participate in convos. I really can't afford much but from whatever I could I tried to adopt their style but not totally. Like them I did not gossip and stuff.
2007-03-17 06:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to impress them they should like you for who you are and If they don't then go find Friends who will you should not have to impress each other in a friendship it doesn't go that way other people might think different but this is what I think good luck I hope you find your answer
2007-03-15 15:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by New Yorker Girl 516 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know sometimes ppl don't like ur real self but believe me ppl like dat r not worth making frnds wid
a frnd is someone who will like u 4 who u r
but if u just want 2 make acquaintances den concentrate on ur studies
if u r gud in academics u will have more ppl around u dan u can eva want.
also try 2 be helpful a cheerful.
2007-03-17 08:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone have already said "be urslf" so i may not repeat it but seriously gal this is the time u can actually make a gud impression....be polite ...all sweet and puhleeeeeez dont be rude or too loud.....dont try to overdo it ...also make effort and mingle with others dont wait for them to call you...one last thing...........dont enter school covered with adhesive ..by this i mean dont stick to anyone thats a strict no-no............wish ya gud luck for the new school.. :)
2007-03-16 03:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by ~~*NiTuM*~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
don't just go behind them try to be yourself + true but don't me rude to them be nice help them only than if needed if that doesn't work try and finding some new friends i can be your friend if you want COOOL!!!
2007-03-15 10:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by missoiram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't try to be impressive.
2007-03-15 04:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really 12 years old cuz you use all thes big words but be your self and try to get to know them and givthem all you got and try to get tere attion
2007-03-15 04:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by nagalyne c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes back comes back. treat others in a way you would like to be treated. if they still don't notice you then wait until someone comes to you. if they still don't notice you tell them to go to hell. remember single is better
2007-03-15 18:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kanishk Rawat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice and friendly, do help other people where u can. talk to everyone even though they dont want to talk to you.
2007-03-15 04:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋