Sometimes the saying is true: 3rd time's a charm.
2007-03-15 04:50:51
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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If he accepts his share of the responsibility for the failures of the first two marriages, then go with your heart; if not, then don't marry him. In other words, if he gives as a reason for a divorce, "She was psycho," that's a red flag, because he has no insight and is putting all the blame on the ex. Likewise if he says, "She cheated on me." It may be a true statement, but what were the circumstances that led to the betrayal, and what role did he play in those circumstances? If he has neither learned nor grown emotionally as a result of his first two divorces, the odds weigh heavily against your marriage to him succeeding. Remember: those who do not learn from history are bound to repeat it!
2007-03-15 04:54:20
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answered by Anonymous
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WOW... thats alot of chemistry!!!! I'm excited for you!!!! But I cannot tell you whether or not you should go ahead and marry him! If you truly Love him, and are ready to take the responsibilities of being a wife, and spend the rest of your life with him... then you should exchange vows! Just make sure YOU are ready for this, and you know in your heart, theres no-one you'd rather be with! GOOD LUCK
** Hope this advice from a 16 year old HELPS **
2007-03-15 05:03:33
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answered by CUTIE 4
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As long as he can give plausable explanations as to HIS role in the failed marriages, and not blame it on either the exes, or some non-specific, generic "bad luck" and "bad judgement' type answer, and he can cite concrete steps that he is willing to take to make this not be his third strike, AND both of you realize that love is sacrificial in its nature and that it is way more than a feeling, but requires years of hard work, committment, along with a lot of truly wonderful things, you will be fine.
If not, i hope you live in an alimony state :)
Good luck to both of you!
2007-03-15 04:51:26
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answered by doc in dallas 3
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As long as he has totally and seriously examined what went wrong with the first two marriages. I know I wouldn't marry a man with such a terrible track record.
2007-03-15 05:42:01
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answered by Lydia 7
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If you love him, then go for it! If you're not sure about your feelings, then just be honest with him. Don't hold his former marriages against him; you may be the one that lasts. Good luck!
2007-03-15 04:51:08
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answered by grandm 6
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I'm sorry sweetie, but I would not marry this man. I know it's not what you want to hear. Just my two cents.
2007-03-15 05:44:02
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answered by janetrmi 5
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if it feels right to you and you love him with all your heart go for it, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons.
2007-03-15 04:47:52
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answered by shelly63795 3
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It's about time. LOL
Congrats.
2007-03-15 04:49:28
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answered by Wonka 5
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