i met her through a chatroom 2 years ago, we formed a close relashionship together. she was even going to move to uk next year to be with me. unfortunatly i formed an attachment to her and felt clingy and possessive about her. but i loved her greatly to. i would fall out with her on msn, if she talked about other guys in blogs on myspace, and her putting other guys photos up on msn. but she would always come back to me, and wed make up. last argument i had with her, was over 3 weeks ago, about her deleting a loving comment i left her on myspace, but yet leaving her other friends comments displayed. she told me she had alot of guy friends, but assured me they were only friends. it still made me sulk and get upset though. i really did think i was developing a serious relashionship with her. even on the net. she was somebody i really loved and developed feelings for. she told me 2 weeks ago, she needed to review everything in her life, including our relashionship. that upset me
2007-03-15 04:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
and i stormed offline upset she could say that.
i felt really guilty i showed my insecurities
and possessiveness with her and i wrote her an
email explaining that id recently been diagnosed
with borderline personality disorder and that i was
awaiting therapy and i was dreading telling her
and that i loved her very much.since storming
offline and sending the email, explaining,
ive heard nothing from her, shes not been on
msn...shes not contacted me in over 2 weeks.
shes not even been logged into myspace...
imiss her so much and want her to come back.
i cant bare the thought that shes left me.i no
she only 20 and me 29 but i did develop feelings
for her. and the amount of times she told me she
loved me and was commited to me, then she does this.
i have her mobile and wondering whether i should call her
to find out whats going on, but i think getting the actual
confirmation its over, will do me alot of damage..
i cant seem to let go, can anyone help?
2007-03-15 04:29:42 · update #1
If you were like this to her, it's no wonder she doesn't want to know you
2007-03-17 21:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Richard E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time with her im sure your a lovely guy but you have got to sort yourself out it's like your posssed, she aint the b all and end all do you get what i mean. There loads of girls out there for you get out more stop the computer thing you will never find a proper relationship through them.
I feel sorry for you wish i could help you Hun!
2007-03-15 12:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is too busy smoking pot or escaping the soon to be American police state. Get that through your skull, eh. You should just move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Birds don't like over sensitive blokes and you seem to be the needy type.
2007-03-15 11:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about someone you've never actually met right? I agree with the person above - she's not interested - give it up.
Step away from the computer - go out and meet some real live people....
2007-03-15 11:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She said she needs time to review her own life and decide what she wants to do and you should give her the time and space to do this. If she wants you she knows how to find you. With all the other issues in your life right now you need to concentrate on getting your own life sorted before involving yourself in a relationship.
2007-03-15 11:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by angelicsugarkitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes just talking to you for the hell of it, some girls have a tendency to say they love people a lot, so you cant always take them too seriously....besides, no offense mate but you sound really jealous and clingy, thats not a good thing as its probably pushing her away...i say you should move on and get over it
2007-03-15 11:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's freaked out because you're obsessing over her and you haven't even met her... don't be silly get a real life and a real girlfried, plus, i'd rather saty in canada and smoke the chronic than talk to a freak like you!
2007-03-15 11:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by paulipauli 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"She's just not that into you."
Truth hurts. Move on.
2007-03-15 11:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Smitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋