there is a girl at my church who is soo annoying; she brags and doesn't even seem to know it! my mom says i should just be honest and tell her, but im afraid to hurt her feelings! how should i tell her without being rude?
2007-03-15 03:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by tari_whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have a talk with her,take her to the side and say look,i know love talking about all the things u have or do but, you know sometimes people dont like that to much..maybe if you brought it down a notch. be nice about it.and especially if she doesnt know what she is doing..sometimes they do this to get attention.
2007-03-15 03:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww... dont be scared, if you are really friend she should understand. And she should try to know more about what others think so she may change herself for the better not for the worse. Just say something like , " hey, your my friend and as your friend i want to tell you that i am not so secured or sure of you bragging. I wanna help you! I dont want you to be hated by anyone so right know even if you dont know you brag or anyone else knows. I wanna try to stop it, so no one will get annoyed with you, cuz i have the best interests for you.
2007-03-15 10:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by margamae 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could point out to her that her behavior isn't very christian like. She may not understand that she is bragging. She might have parents who put emphasis on material things. You never have to be rude to anyone to get a point across. You simply smile and be a true christian. Thank you and may GOD bless.
2007-03-15 10:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋