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i have known him for a little over a year and we are close and i love talkin to him and being around him is it okay to want him in a sexual way i love the way he feels when we are close he respects me all the time his touch is so soft and sincere and im afraid he may not feel the same way i do about this situation

2007-03-15 03:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by SMILING EYES 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

7 answers

Honestly, life's too short and we all shouldnt be serious all the time. you have to live day by day knowing dawn well that tomorrow dont belong to you. I'd say take advantage of today, tell him how you feel and if necessary, tell him you wont take no for an answer. I'm sensing that he wants the same thing and if he dont, you would know sooner than later and that also would help you not waste your time and effort. I hope that would help. good luck!!

2007-03-15 05:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0 0

I am a huge advocate of fantasy making life much more interesting but this situation may not be appropriate. If both of you are single then "go for it". There can be no harm in a little sexual fantasy.

If, however, one or both of you has a partner it is something to be avoided. Even though fantasy sharing is good for a relationship once it becomes personalized to someone you know then it takes on a different twist. Whether you realize it not this will absolutely 'poison' the relationship you are currently involved with.

2007-03-15 03:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0 0

i admit i have a friend like this...he is one of my very best friends. and he knows how i feel about him...how i fantasize about him...and is willing to be friends with benefits...but knowing i want more from it...we just enjoy each others company and keep it nonsexual. ( we do hug each other and all....he has the BEST hugs!! we just keep our clothes on..LOL) it has not affected our friendship since i told him how i felt (about 6 months ago), so i am thinking it probably won't in the future either. I'm not sure that everyone could handle a relationship like that...but i think it happens more often than we realize (or admit to). so kick back, relax and enjoy this great friend you have. chances are, if he finds out...he will be flattered, even if he doesn't think of you in that way. :)

2007-03-15 04:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by kalitajothy 3 · 0 0

i know u have known him for over a month but if u want to take it to the next level u have to make the move

2007-03-15 04:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Hyphy 1 · 0 0

that's a big problem you know...try to confront him..and besides you're close friends, aren't you? but be prepare for whatever he'll tell you , sometimes there's guy like that but there's nothing behind reasons for their inter action. you're lucky when he tells you that you're both have the same feelings. gud luck..

2007-03-15 04:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by car 2 · 0 0

Honey i think it's perfectly fine to fantasize bout a close friend but are you sure you don't have alot more feelings for him than you think???!!

2007-03-15 03:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0 0

yes, i do this all the time! but just wait for him to take the next step.. u shouldn't put too much hope tho, u might be disappointed..

2007-03-15 03:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by yakisoba 2 · 0 0

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