i have a friend and i thought that i could trust her with a secret, that i have, because i have a crush on one of my guy friends. i thought that she was trust worthy but she isn't. she told him and now he won't talk to me or even look at me in the eye. what should i do? should i tell him that it was just a rumor? should i beat this girl up? or should i never talk to him again?
2007-03-15 03:44:08 · 14 answers · asked by Maite P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just chill, you may get the guy she has probably helped you !
2007-03-15 03:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you learned two BIG things: One, your friend isn't really a friend and two, the guy you like sounds like a jerk and if he is why waste your time dating him.
So, I wouldn't be telling "my friend" any more secrets but she could still be a friend (just not a close one- I'm sorry). Him, he knows you like him. If he wanted to date you he'd be asking.
Let some time pass. Don't chase after him cause that will only spook him more. Be relaxed, when you see him just a friendly hi - how ya doing! This will be hard cause you really like him but in the long run it will be better for you....and you might find he'll start coming around on his own. Good luck
2007-03-15 03:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely off topic, but I couldn't help noticing - in the Basque language your name means love, or at least friendship !
No, none of the actions you suggest will benefit, if he is a good friend it won't really make much difference, if not it is not so important - it would only be a problem if you act unilaterally - crushes at all ages are not unusual, neither are they necessarily serious. There is usually a good reason for being friends in the first place.
2007-03-15 03:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Aspphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to him... He may or may not have the same feeling for you. Find out what he wants.... He may just be disappointed that you told your girlfriend and not him. It could be that he doesn't know what to say to you now.... Don't just let it go... Talk to him.....True friends are hard to find and if he is a true friend you don't want to lose him.... Besides, the best relationships always start out as friends....
2007-03-15 03:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Robin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never be that girls friend AGAIN. and then back to him...
tell him that it was a lie and that your frend was jealous because he liked this certain guy and you didnt and your frend wanted him
hope it all works out
ive been thru this before really hard times but it will come out in a happy ending i guess ?????
good luck
and my name is the same as tom cruises daughter
curse you tom cruise
2007-03-15 03:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by My chesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, chill out. Just talk to the girl and ask why she told. Then go talk to the guy and try to express your feelings about him. Tell him if he doesn't like you, ya'll should work this out and be friends again [[atleast.]] I really hope this helps and GOOD LUCK! :D
2007-03-15 03:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him what's wrong, then just talk about it, tell him that it was just an innocent crush and you didn't mean anything by it.. Then I wouldn't even talk to other friend anymore, at least not for a while, lol
2007-03-15 03:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ambah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 10:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and ask why he's not talking to you. And if he says because you like me, say so what if I do??? Does that give you the right not to talk to me?
2007-03-15 03:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on and don't talk to neither one of them anymore. If she get wrong, then beat the mess out of her
2007-03-15 03:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by - -Ladii TK- - 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoop her as$ and never talk to her again, and then tell him that it was just tell him the truth, either he'll like it or not, either way, move on.
2007-03-15 03:47:39 · answer #11 · answered by The QUEEN of EVERYTHING! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋