Ok i havent told my mom i have been having sex since i was 14 and now she starts to ask me about it more often. every time i do have sex it seems something about me change. and for the last couple of days she 's been asking me and i always say why. well 2day she told me i looked pregnant and she said it yesterday 2. i only had sex one time this month so far and i had my period after it, is a chance i still bmaybe pregnant?
When my mom was 2 months pregnant with me she had a period!
2007-03-15 03:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Anytime you have unprotected sex it is possible to get pregnant. Maybe your mom is on to something. If you aren't pregnant I would smarten up and do the mature thing and at LEAST protect yourself.
2007-03-15 03:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be any chance of you being pregnant - get good reliable birth control now!Your mother has a good instinct - she sees that you are an unmarried teenage mother in the making and she wants a better future for you. At least a baby-free future for the next couple of years until you get older. So the next time she asks you, tell her, 'I know you keep asking me and maybe you are right to ask me - and maybe the right thing to do is let the doctor prescribe birth control for me. Then you can stop worrying and you will feel better. I'll feel better too.'
Then, whatever she says, you can still go to a clinic or Planned Parenthood or whatever is available in your area (just going to your family doctor is best) and get that prescription - or other failproof protection (an IUD as another thing you can get).
2007-03-18 03:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she may be saying that to get you to confess! Ok I wouldn't want my daughter to keep secrets from me but let me tell you what happen to me in 1976, my mom asked my if I ever had sex and me being stupid because she was going to make me swear on the bible (at that time we were in to church big time) and I couldn't lie so I told her yes and that started the ball going straight to hell, she had to tell the preacher at church then my dad, then they decided that I couldn't see my boyfriend anymore and I was grounded, ( I did sneak and see him) then she started all this crap that I could be pregnant( I knew I wasn't) and she decided if I was pregnant I could see my boyfriend again, so I lied through a bunch of periods(I hid them) but eventually she took me to the doctor and I wasn't pregnant ( ikew I wasn't) so they stopped us from seeing each other(we snuck anyways) and finally we were able to date again (only at my house supervised, then I finally turned 18 and moved out, well they were wrong in april we will be married for 25 years and have been together for 31 years. And the only child we have is a seven year old girl, see my mom had nothing to worry about we were infertile all those years! I tease her about it now but if your mom is asking and saying these things she is trying to get the truth out of you, it all depends on your relationship if you think she is asking so she can help you, Good luck and if you decide not to tell her then I hope you are using safe sex practices and I hope you have an adult that you can trust. Mosy moms really don't want to hear about their kids having sex. I think she is just worried you will end up pregnant at an early age and she just wants the best for you.
2007-03-15 10:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...and when she looks at you like that, you feel guilty because your're hiding somethin from her...
the only way to get rid of the feeling is to just take a test and find out
then u'll feel better
if you didnt use protection, or you're not on the pill, you could be pregnant, and who else to know you better, than your Mom?
2007-03-15 10:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by lilleene29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would be to go get a pregnancy test it is possible to still have your period while you are pregnant. Moms usually know my mom knew I was before I told her, just maternal instinct I guess. Good luck.
2007-03-15 10:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by mominla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone women is different i believe you should have told her sooner that way she could have gotten you on birthcontrol. The only sure way is to talk to you're mom and both of you go down to the walmart or whereever and get a test and take it. Its not use just sitting around waiting. Goodluck!
2007-03-15 10:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by [[<3]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test and you should just tell your mom you are having sex because it case you get any type of infection she is the one tat is going to go to the dr. with you and after all she is the one that is going to pay for it .. but yeah in case you are well good luck.â¥
2007-03-15 11:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by ciara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutely possible, just buy a home pregnancy test, if it's negative show it to your mom and tell her you appreciate her concern but you know what you're doing, if it's possitive, tell her you're sorry you hid things from her for fear of her reaction and tell her to take you to a doctor as soon as possible to watch your pregnancy, there's nothing to worry about, everything has a solution ok? smile!!!
2007-03-15 10:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by paulipauli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way to tell for shure is to take a test, maybe your mom just wants you to think about your action before you do things so you will protect your self
2007-03-15 10:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is ALWAYS a chance. Why are you not protecting yourself, not only against pregnancy but AIDS and othe STD's. (Silly "girl", not being very responsible for yourself)
2007-03-15 10:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by SALSA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋