2007-03-15 03:17:56 · 29 answers · asked by LuCkY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This friend of mine is a male. I don't know why he hates me. It bothers me.
2007-03-15 03:27:27 · update #1
clearly this person is not your friend
2007-03-15 03:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wanna tell you i had experienced that...it was supposted to be only me and my friend's argument but...she joined in other people... anyway.. dont make the same mistake with me, trust me you will be feeling like you got hit by a gun and really sad and regret it. So try to think first, ask him why is he feeling wrong about you. Dont get too emotional, (like i did) it can really bring you down. If he is really your friend he would want to try to give you a chance or accept you for being you. People have different personality, so there can be misunderstanding. All i am saying is... hey anger is a normal feeling cuz no one is perfect, but if he throws you a rock... throw him bread in short, dont fight back. Just try to talk to him. If it does not go well just try to move on slowly, but never have hatred in ur heart ( it can change you)
2007-03-15 10:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by margamae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all there not your friend, and if they feel the need to talk about you behind your back, theres no need for you to get upset bacause they choose to be a HATER! Mostly you are in a place that they want to be-they want to be like you. Girl do you, and don't worry about what others have to say-no matter how bad, or good your doing in life there will always be a hater...
2007-03-15 10:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by spoiledby2many 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's a good friend then I would confront her. If it is one of those not really friends but you more or less keep them close to keep an eye on them then don't worry about it. Let her keep looking like an *** for bad mouthing her "friends".
2007-03-15 10:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a 3 strike policy. Everyone had 3 tries to offend/hurt/bad-mouth me and on that 3rd time, I stop being their friend.
2007-03-15 10:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did it behind ur back he wasnt 2 much of a "friend" in da first place not to mention he is a pussy cause he couldnt say it to ur face. Id forget about him.
2007-03-15 10:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by marissa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them! Tell them anything you have to say to me say it in my face and not behind my back, that way I know your my friend and do it because u care if you do it behind my back ur just a frienemy ( friend who is really your enemy).
2007-03-15 10:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask my friend what it was about me that made them too afraid to say it to my face.
If the answer wasn't satisfactory, then I'd drop them like a bad habit.
2007-03-15 10:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by p37ry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. all people have done that. Iys a part of our nature. you(I know I have) bad mouthed, without meaning to. as people, we tend to notice the bad things in people more then, and before we notice, the good things.
2007-03-15 10:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by ChickAroo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would they do if your "Ex-Friend" bad-mouthed you behind your back? Gosh! That's got a much better ring to it. Are we clear? ARE WE CLEAR? (crystal!)
2007-03-15 10:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront the source of the problem/gossip-rumor starter. If he's mature and cool he'd deal with it and talk. If not, kiss his *** goodbye and kick him
2007-03-15 10:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋