I have been approach by two guys, they are all cool and understandable and the most important thing is that they are both christians. the problem is one looks nice but does not have money, the other one had got money but he is not handsome.
2007-03-15 03:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by spankybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're not sure then don't choose either one. However, if you are ready to choose one I would go for the person who shares not only the morals you do but who shares the values that you do. Regardless of money, which one do you think will love you with all of their heart and which one will love you for the rest of your life? How is his relationship with his father? Will he be a good father to your children?
Money is nice and it sure can make things easy, but if you really don't love this person like you want to then there isn't enough money in the world that will make you a faithful and happy person.
Follow your heart, pray about it, and then don't be in too much of a hurry. It will work out.
2007-03-15 03:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEITHER - and neither should you! That's shallow. You're right - the IMPORTANT thing is that they are Christians, and if they are truly walking with God, either of them would honor their vows and treat you the way they should. But you are clearly not ready to make a committment if you are thinking about choosing a "life partner" based on looks or finances. Pray about this and make sure 1) you're truly ready and 2) you choose for the RIGHT reasons.
2007-03-15 04:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 01:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I go with looks. I couldn't handle an out of shape ugly guy on top of me. I am too darn picky with myself, and expect prefection of the body with my male counterpart.
By thy way, this is ONLY if I had to choose looks or money..obviously there is more to a relationship than looks or money.
2007-03-15 03:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither beauty or money matter when it comes to a life partner.
Love, compatibility, honesty and open communication are the traits that should be sought.
2007-03-15 03:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then didtch them both. You can have both good looking and financially stable. Why compromising?
PS? You don't sound very "christian" if you are so shallow if your are making a decision based in looks or money.
2007-03-15 03:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go with money, you'll have a secure life, he'll be faithful and I'm sure he's very nice.
2007-03-15 03:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First see the character.Both money and beauty is not important..........
2007-03-15 03:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by manju k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money nor looks has anything to do with LOVE.......
2007-03-15 03:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I go with someone I know that will be good to me.
2007-03-15 03:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋