just got my period today - have mixed feeling about it and somehow ffeel guilty
i have had 3 miscarriages so far - all fairly late, 1 at 16wks and the other 2 after 24 wks so altho am dying to have a baby am also very scared of getting pregnant again
am pretty confused!!! so when i saw my period this morning i was both sad and relieved - does anyone else ever feel like that? am i normal?
2007-03-15 03:00:47 · 12 answers · asked by Brown_shooga_2007 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
hi Brown,
You poor soul, its really hard going through what you have, you have been to hell and back, its no wonder you felt sad and relieved, your sad because yet again its another period and not a pregnancy, and your feeling relieved because your thinking , am i ready for this, what if it goes wrong. You shouldnt be too hard on yourself, you really have had huge upsets. They do say that miscarriage is good for your womb in a way, aparently it helps to prepare the womb, its like a trial run, harsh but still something to hold on to when you feel low. I can only hope that good fortune comes your way and you get to experience pregnancy and chilbirth, chin up, and try to remember that everything happens for a reson, perhaps your going to have the most amazing child ever, and to get that child you had to go through all this. lots of love xxx
2007-03-15 03:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by law 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
VERY normal! I went through the same deal. You want a child and want to feel that love growing inside of you but at the same time, you fear that love will be taken away from you AGAIN. Your not sure how much more your heart can take. Don't blame yourself or God for wanting that special spirit inside you with him in heaven as an angel. Things will work out. Keep trying. Good luck
2007-03-15 03:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've been through a lot Hun and need to talk to some professionals, i understand why you are nervous about a new pregnancy, its the unknown isn't it. plus with getting your period today you feel like you failed by not conceiving but you didn't! it just wasn't meant to be this time, it will happen for you. you need special care when you do fall pregnant again. hopefully you'll feel better when your hormones settle in a few days. i wish you the best of luck, so sorry for your sad losses xxxxx
2007-03-15 03:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by louise 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am exactly the same, dont worry, i had a miscarriage at 12 weeks, 3 years ago. although i am trying with my partner for a baby now i still get those mixed emotions too. You are normal dont worry but if its eating away at you then please see someone to help you, a friend, your mum, a doctor, just to make you feel better and to talk with you about what your going through, they will understand.
2007-03-15 03:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone. i've been there. i had 3 miscarriages my latest being 23 weeks. that was 11 years ago this June. its extremely hard to cope but you will. i'm still trying for a baby and have been for the last 16 years but i will not give up. i beleive i will succeed and so can you good luck and i hope everything works out for you. xxxxxxxx
2007-03-15 03:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by tracey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your are afraid to be pregnant because you are scared to lose another baby, its a normal feeling you feel sad because you want a baby and happy because you don't want to go through this again.
if you got pregnant again relax and put in you mind what ever will be will be. leave it to god and he will protect you and the baby, good luck
2007-03-15 03:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course your normal. You've had a lot of pain to deal with no wonder you have mixed feelings. Don't beat yourself up about it.
2007-03-15 04:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw =( Im sorry to hear that, have you tried contacting a dr? one of teh clinics that can help you get pregnant and maybe they can advise you what to do to keep the baby maybe you have to do bed rest.. whatever it is I wish you luck and god bless =)
2007-03-15 03:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by GIGI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre perfectly normal,just hopeful and scared.good luck
2007-03-15 03:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋