Life choices...?

Question

This year is a critical year for me; I'm having the GCE 'O' Levels (I'm Singaporean). However, I'm also very involved in the debate team. This year will be the final year for my team to prove ourselves worthy and so far we have been faring quite okay. The only thing is, my parents (especially my mom) are unhappy with the hours I put into debate and others besides my studies. The main problem also is, I don't want to really learn in school. I want to go into the arts when I grow up. You know, big, bright lights, camera, action and all that jazz? I love film. But I'm also confused. What should I do?

Answer 1

Education is important even if you want to go in the arts. After finishing high school you can go to university and get an Arts degree. You would likely be chosen over people without a finished education when it comes time for an interview for a job. It proves to them that you are capable of learning. Since you have to spend a certain number of hours sitting in school why not try to learn while you are sitting there. Students are often confused, it comes with the age and the many options available so don't worry about it. But do do the research to help you make a good decision. This is a good way of getting feedback from a large number of people. Good luck.

Answer 2

I'm not sure I understand why you are putting all those hours into debating when you really want to be in the arts?

I think that people should try to fulfil their dreams but not be afraid to change those dreams as they grow. What is the worse case of your choosing to go into theatre or communications?

Parents are often the biggest problem because they think they know best. What they know is usually what is the most acceptable and comfortable.

No easy answers here; but it is your life.

Answer 3

well, just remember that if ever your career in arts doesn't work out too well, it's a good thing to have education to fall back on. good luck.

Answer 4

Follow your heart, It is you life!