2007-03-15 02:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by confusedansneedhelp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you want this child molesting cheater back?
2007-03-15 02:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why do you want this guy back? I know its difficult, i was in the same situation as you a few years back, but i got through it and am now marrying a wonderful man who loves me and treats my daughter like his own. Dont get me wrong, it still hurts sometimes, not that the piece of dirt doesn't want me, but that he wants nothing to do with our daughter. I understand that at the minute it is so, so difficult for you, but in the long run its best for you and your child that you have nothing to do with him. on the other hand, I'm only speaking from experience. if this guy is truly sorry for hurting you and you trust him not to let you down again, maybe it would be worth giving it another go. just remember, if you take him back and he leaves again, it wont just be you getting hurt, it will be your child aswell. I'm sorry if this isn't much help to you, but I'm sure you deserve better. Good luck.
2007-03-15 10:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ ezzbez ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heII do you want someone back who dumped you? Do you really think he will change and suddenly become the perfect man? Come on, time to grow up and face the music you got scammed by a player. Have your child and take the player to court for child support. You will be better off without him and so will your child. That way it doesn't grow up seeing mommy as some week knee getting walked over by its Daddy. Now if you're talking getting even, make sure he pays his child support.
2007-03-15 11:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Quix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You deal with and move on. And get him for child support. It's gonna hurt because you had feelings for him, but you don't want him back after he did that to you. Your relationship would only be a lie. Your emotions are running wild because you are pregnant. Don't worry about him and find a man that really acts like man and not a kid.
2007-03-15 09:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to an attorney (or social services...if you-yourself are a minor) and sue him for child support for the next 18+ years.
If he is over 18..you also report him to the authorities for having relations with a minor.
2007-03-15 09:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dismemberment. Enjoy
2007-03-15 09:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would want that guy back. What kinda of father would he make. Let him go now while you still can, sometimes no father is better than a crappy one with joint custody.
2007-03-15 09:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 get a job and be ready 2 pay child support lol
2007-03-15 10:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want the guy back?
Child support yes, the guy himself, no.
2007-03-15 09:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want that loser back in your life????
2007-03-15 09:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋