Up until September of 2006, I thought I was straight, but my recent feelings are now causing me to be seriously confused. Half of me feels like I could be bi, the other half feels I could be lesbian. All the confusion is torture on me. I don't know what to do.
2007-03-15 02:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Up until September of 2006, I thought I was straight, but my recent feelings are now causing me to be seriously confused. Half of me feels like I could be bi, the other half feels I could be lesbian. All the confusion is torture on me. I am only 17, I have never had a boy friend before, but I have had 2 girlfriends.......... What do i do?
2007-03-15 02:46:37 · update #1
Should I be afraid of going to hell for being this way if i am??? ..... I've tried telling my mom, but she only takes it as a joke....
2007-03-15 07:52:27 · update #2
Do what your first instinct tells you.You know its wrong and getting other sickos to tell you it is ok still won't make you think it's ok inside.
2007-03-23 01:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by YATHINK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..we are exactly the same...except I'm a dude. Well. I haven't had sex since Oct. 2006...so I'm just a nice, boring, celibate guy who's gay but sometimes thinks he's straight or bi. Just eat steaming bowls of boiled oats 2-3 times a week and keep your heart and health strong. No need to torture yourself...treat yourself well. !!
2007-03-15 09:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why the sudden turn around from being straight to being bi or lesbian in the scope of just 6 months? It just don't add up.
Stop bugging yourself about these things... in time it'll just come to you.
2007-03-19 23:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry too much. les or bi, you still like girls at the end of the day, so why keep judging yourself what you really are? i have a similar situation like you too, except that i do have a bf and i'm equally confused as you... but i'm trying to come to terms and identify who i really am.
2007-03-15 10:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out why you suddenly felt this urge if it was because you broke up with a man and a lady was there to comfort you it is a hole different thing
2007-03-15 09:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about labels is the first thing that you should do. Take time to explore your feelings is the next thing that you should do.
2007-03-15 09:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly u should explore how u feel and if u like it then stay with it i'll admit it i'm bi and........just go with whatever u feel is right!!! Ashleii
2007-03-15 10:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by ~~Ashleii Marii~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry? Explore your feelings, and be happy with whatever comes.
2007-03-15 09:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing! and a solution shall surely come to you. I am not being facetious either.
2007-03-15 09:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about labels. even if you are gay, there are a billion different 'types' of person you can be within that spectrum. be yourself, build community, find support and have fun!!! life's short...
2007-03-22 08:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋