so Im like in love with my best guy friend. We're both in 8th grade.and I never got to tell him my true feelings about him. because he moved away,to Bronx,New york. (in florida)..so you can imagine the distance. I havent talked to him for about 3 days now. (he left 3 days ago.)..I know Im gonna talk to him soon,maybe in 4 more days at the most. Do I tell him I liked him and still kinda do?? but I dont want to put our friendship on the line,because I dont know what hes gonna say. I dont want him to look at me differently and stuff. or treat me differently.
what to I do?? I wanna tell him because I wanna see his reaction and what he would say. PLEASE HELP ME!! I NEED ADVICE! AND TONS OF IT!!
**Note: We both are only like 14 years old.
2007-03-15 02:27:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To the 3rd person that answered this question:I am at school right now. we're allowed on yahoo answers during homeroom. also,Im not "too young"..I hate it when people say that. because its like a middle school thing. so it works out perfect
2007-03-15 02:33:38 · update #1
mmm...
you still have a long journey to go....
unrequited love....
stop hurting yourself
why don't you focus in your study......
you'll meet someone else in the future...
2007-03-15 02:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by pimple_girl88 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, honestly, whats the point of telling him now? Hes so far away it would never work...unless hes coming back soon then there is still a chance. But, like you said you dont want to ruin a good friendship you have, which it def will never be the same if you do.... trust me. So you may just want to keep him as a friend so he can always be in your life. You never know, if you start dating and it doesnt work out then it will be quite awkward after the breakup and it wont be the same ever again! Thats just how it goes..... Keep him as a friend is my advice..... Go out and find a different guy you can date. Then you can tell your best bud all about him, and ask for guy advice, etc.... Im sure it will turn out just fine for yah! Good luck
2007-03-15 09:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well fourteen is the age to feel the kind of stuff u r feeling right now. i was 14 when i met the guy i used to dream about u, just like u he moved to another state and we never talked again till this day. i mean he knew that i loved him and i know that he loved too, but for some reasons i feel like i did not give him enough love to make him come back to me. now i have loved him my whole life and he never knew how much i loved because i never had the chance to show it to him. what i 'm trying to say to u is to tell him how u feel otherwise u will regret it for the rest of ur life trust me.
2007-03-15 10:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww..that's so cute puppy love...you should tell just so he knows and you don't regret not telling him....but you have a long live a head of you so look for some boys around where you live and if you two still feel the same when you get older go see each other than.
2007-03-15 09:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him when you talk to him, just say you are really missing him being so far away, and when are you going to see each other again. You can still keep in touch and eventually you will see each other again, send photo's too he will like that.
2007-03-15 09:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you'll find another guy. In couple years, you won't even remember his name. Well you probably will but you won't have the same feelings that you do right now. Good luck
2007-03-15 09:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i promise you that you will find another everything happens for a reason your reallly young and got your whole life ahead of you how do you know you love him or really love him sometimes it can be very confusing wait it out.
2007-03-15 09:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by confusedansneedhelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you donot hurry up maybe he doesnot deserve you so talk to him and try to know him more close and then decide and remember donot deceive by appearance
2007-03-15 09:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by ahmed_h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. moving is tough on young people and I'm sure this is a stressful time to spring this on him. if you wanted to see his reaction, you should have told him before, before he moved, before you knew he was going to move, when you KNEW you liked him.
2007-03-15 09:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Christop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him..... it wont kill u. .......if you wait, he could be hit by a bronx bus tomorrow.... then you'll really learn what true regret is all about!
2007-03-15 09:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Redrum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋