My daughter 15 years old...caught me once using my vibrator,although i was very cautious but it happened and i lost words and i even didnt talk about it...now wht should i do!!?
2007-03-15 02:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
An embarrassing situation, for sure! I guess what you do now is entirely time-dependant. If your daughter just caught you yesterday, then sit down and talk with her about this (at 15, she is likely old enough to know about the facts of life). If, however, she unknowingly opened that bedroom door six months ago, just drop it ... she is probably just as embarrassed as you are about the whole matter.
2007-03-15 02:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have already talked to her about sex, then this is just one more thing you can add to that - like an addendum. If you haven't had that talk, then now's the time to talk about it and you can lead with that topic! Using a vibrator can be described as the most responsible kind of sex before marriage! Just think, no diseases (that I've ever heard of) and results are pretty much guaranteed. You have an opportunity to show your daughter that this is not something abnormal she caught you with - and she doesn't need the masturbation that is lesbianism or to be with a guy to find out what it is all about! Even the Bible's condemnation of masturbation was about wasting seed - which women aren't doing when they use a vibrator.
You could also point out that one thing about sex is that it should be private - and even when you try your best to have privacy, sometimes there are slip-ups so she should be aware of that, too!
2007-03-15 09:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at least it wasn't a man. I don't think it's necessary to bring up the subject unless she appraoches it first. Teen girls are very sensitive so I wouldn't suggest to just start talking with her about it.
2007-03-15 09:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her the truth,and get out of your chest, to hide things in the family will build a barrier with time if get bigger and bigger. be open in how do you fell, she is 15 she is a young woman she will understand
2007-03-15 09:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL WOW. What a situation...Well if she is 15 she most likely knows what it is. Are you married? is she acting different to you? maybe just explain you needed to please yourself, we all have to at times!
2007-03-15 09:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh really?...sucks for you - I know that grossed her out
2007-03-15 12:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth and shame the devil
2007-03-15 09:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok well you have a lot of prob. this one not so major she is 15 it happened wat are you gonna do?
2007-03-15 11:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by vallan1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should consider buying her one of her own.
2007-03-15 09:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
bare it
2007-03-15 10:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweta a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋