2007-03-15 02:14:42 · 19 answers · asked by Husain F 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no - they sometimes make us feel worse -
2007-03-15 02:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up songs just help us sulk. they make nothing better. in fact make you miss your ex even more. the best way to get over break up blues is to hang out with friends as much as possible. don't be alone right now. hang out and the rest take cares of it self. i know you solitude is best but take it from someone who knows it is never good to be alone at a time like this.
2007-03-17 12:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought so, but then when I would hear the songs later that I put on my 'break up cd' it would get me depressed again. I ruined some good music by associating it with a crappy ex.
2007-03-15 02:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that they are relevant to your mood and feelings at the time and allow you to have an outlet for your frustration/anguish, anger/fear and pain then yes, they can play a small part.
Unchained Melody is the one that always gets me because it talks about love coming long distances and the love of my life was from Ghana.
2007-03-15 02:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by elflaeda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I can't listen to "When Love Breaks Down" by Prefab Sprout without thinking about several ex-girlfriends, but it helps. You should try that one - good lyrics.
2007-03-15 02:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by The Transporter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo i think its an experience what we learn from gets us over it listenin to love songs makes you feel emotions in the heart it'll only get you thinkin back when you were together now your apart trust me get over it be a soulja n walk through the battle field if you have to you cumin out alive trust me dont let it happen to ya again its not worth it til you find the right women jus carry on ballin !!! for real !!!
2007-03-15 02:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they sometimes let you cry out the hurt... but on the whole i have found i can't listen to songs like that until i'm at a better place in my head!
2007-03-15 02:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous_ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they make you as miserable as hell, I don't know why people buy break up song compilation albums - how depressing! also when you've broken up with someone you seem to notice that every song you hear is about being in love!
2007-03-15 02:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by loknights 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they just depress you more and make you dwell on the break up.
2007-03-15 02:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find they make me see things in a better light
2007-03-18 03:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they help you to unleash all those emotions and so get on with your life more quickly.
2007-03-19 01:57:18 · answer #11 · answered by Snake eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋