When my friends offend me, i really beat them, and they are afraid to stop being my friend because everyone in school respects me, sometimes i feel a bit bad about it all. How can i change for the better??
2007-03-15 01:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Gentleman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have a very serious misconception of what "friend" and "respect" means. You are NOT respected, you are FEARED. Violence comes from fear AND creates fear! It's a nasty feeling for everyone involved! RESPECT involves a very deep TRUST - it is totally impossible to trust violent people - FRIENDS also TRUST each other - again, how can anyone trust an angry, abusive, bully who has the meaning of friend and respect completely WRONG?? DUDE! You are a walking time bomb - no doubt you are angry, no doubt you got this from home. If you continue carrying out all that hate, you WILL meet that one person that will NOT tolerate you, and you will be dead. No joke.
You need to get good counseling, and you need to be totally honest with them. Nobody needs to know you are seeking help, just do it any way you can. You have to dig up allot of yucky crap to get better, but you will get better. Take some of your toughness and use it to get HEALTHY!!!
2007-03-15 02:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...well first of all you need to keep your hands to yourself. Because please believe me your going to hit the wrong person, and someone is going to give what your looking for. But, irregardless if they respect at school, you shouldn't put your hands on anyone at all. You need to stop before your friends get really upset and do something that you won't like. You sound like a good person your just making bad decisions. Hope you get it together!
2007-03-15 01:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by muslimah4life91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not right to beat anyone else, especially your friends. Friends are good shoulders in our lifes and you wouldn't want to hurt your shoulder ryt.
Its ok to be angry but dont let your emotions control your actions.See what these emotions do; they make you act in a bad way then immediately they make you feel stupid.
Each day purpose in your heart to forgive everyone who errs you. Soon you will find yoself attracting more friends to your circle.
2007-03-15 02:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by lionden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat on people. Use word to express yourself. My 5 year old brought home from school the "purple pledge". "I will not use my hands or words for hurting myself or others." Think about it.
2007-03-15 01:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..how can u call them ur friends if u beat them??? i mean, can't u talk about ur problems, u have to beat them?? if u were in their shoes how would u feel if someone beated u? com' on...
2007-03-15 02:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you physically beat them? if you doo, get some help, its all you can do. if its in sports, let them win once in a while, its ok to lose sometimes.
2007-03-15 01:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Katie I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some help gurl. you dont need to beat up on your friends. you will go to jailed. you beter not ever beat my child up. thats crazy. you need help now.
2007-03-15 02:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by bay bay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dn't hit anyone. ur not in kinder any more. oww...
keep ur body under control. tell them how u feel in the way U wud say it. [NOT w/ the fists ur mouth.] SAY it. if they r ur friends, they'll listen & hear u out.
2007-03-15 02:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you physically beating them you need help and soon
2007-03-15 02:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use ur mouth to tell wut ur feeling. u might want to try to get rid of the beating reputation u have.
2007-03-15 02:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋