if u know that your husband is hiding an affair how do u catch him??

Answer 1

Here you go:

1. Check receipts. Check pants pockets, wallet, drawers, anywhere that something can be hid in. oh, the car also

2. As soon as he walks in the door, hug him. If he smells like puss or soup, question it. Ask him why he is so clean after working or why he smell like another woman.

3. Follow him.

4. Check cell phone bill, bank receipts.

5. I know this sounds nasty, but sniff his underwear. Everyone has a scent. If it don't smell like his or your scent, who could it be.

6. As soon as he comes in, try to be intimate with him. If he pushes you away, that is because he is done. Take note.

7. Call him at odd times that you usually wouldn't. Do he pick up the phone? Do he sound rushed? red flag

8. Tell him that you are going out of town for the day, or have to work late. Then show back up at the house about three hours later. See what happens.

That is enough for now. Bring the evidence to him, and stand strong in your belief. He will try to talk his way out of it, but if you have your ducks in order, you will be okay.

Good luck

Answer 2

All the things listed are good ideas and will probably and here is another. If you suspect him and you think he may be using the computer for correspondence with this person....there is now software that you can install on your computer that will record every email, and IM he sends and the software will email in to you. You just need to make sure that you have a secret email account that it can be mailed to, and make sure it has a very secret pass word. There is one on the that hides itself very well in your computer. But you also need to follow all the other info that ppl have offered here.
you may even have to see if a friend will let you use their car and follow him.....document everything, you will need this when you approach him about the affair.....and make sure that you make copies, you hide the originals and only give him copies, you may even be able to sue the other party for alienation of affection.
I wish you the best

Answer 3

Lady, they have all advised you on how to 'catch' him. Let me now say how to catch 'you. If you suspect your husband of an affair, in reality it shows your awareness of something that is wanting in you. If you loved each other well and understood yourself, you will not have to worry about affairs. See where you have distanced yourself from him. May be you were too worried about the kids. Or interested in the career and took him for granted. Anything. Simply reverse that and I am sure that he will stick home. Men by nature are devoted to their families.
So don't play Sherlock Holmes. Play the loving housewife.
God bless.
Ravi

Answer 4

if u know that your husband is hiding an affair WHY do u want to catch him?

Look you have to accept one thing that still your husband loves you and has some respect for the husband wife relationship that's why he is hiding it from you. Apart from this he also knows it at the back of his mind very clearly that he is doing something wrong.

Don't worry and enjoy his company till he has respect for this relationship and start looking for alternatives in terms of jobs etc if u r not working and make yourself more independent.

Remenber one thing for sure even if u catch him nothing is going to change and things will become more easy for him since he has been exposed and chances of coming back are nil.

Only three things can happen in this case:
1. He himself confides in you and moves out
2. You catch him and expose him
3. He comes back to you after all this nonsense and repent on his doings.

well the decision is solely yours and will totally depend on your love strength and your acceptability for your husband after this episode.

ALL THE BEST

Answer 5

I fail to understand why 2 people cannot sit across a table & discuss an issues which is causing so much of stress to one of them.by the way, I am sure there must be something from your end missing as well that would have caused him to stray.also - i don't know what you want to achieve by "catching" him.....if he having an affair, half of your marriage is over anyways.....!!!

Answer 6

If you know that your husband is hiding an affair why would you waste your time trying to catch him.You need to file for divorce and leave him and start your life over again..Trust is everything in a marriage without trust you have nothing and you obviously do not trust your husband so get out now...Good Luck to you.

Answer 7

Marriage is such a holy word still todays world use it like condoms. Dear once your husband had taken his step out, he cant reverse it at any cost. He had lost his sense of responsiblity. Its your choice to drag him out of your life or get dragged by him.
If he is having a connection some where he does not need you at his bed. His performance at the bed will also slow down and slowly cool down to zero.
His salary slip for the month and the amount of expenditure if calculated will shoot up. if you belong to very rich family then you try to keep in touch with him hourly, his love, behaviour, and tone of speaking out will surely change. Check his temperament towards you and his interest in family matters. keep demanding some thing pricey to keep him on the hook financially.
Rest god bless you
If a man decides that none should know about his relations it would be really very hard for you to find out.

Answer 8

Get a mate to follow him. I caught mine out by spending an afternoon on the net studying body language.When he came home I asked him if we could have a quick chat. He sat down & folded his arms & started to look very worried! Oh dear,big mistake. I asked him very calmly the question.His body language did all the talking.He tryed to deny it all, but after 5 mins of his obvious signs I lied & told him that I had once took a course at college on body language!Thats when he broke down & confessed all.

Answer 9

Check his cell phone numbers, calls, phone bills. Maybe follow him around one night when he says he has to go somewhere. Ask his friends if he has been acting weird lately (not sure if they would fess up though). Notice if he is dressing more nice, showering more, wearing cologne, spending more time on his appearance. I got this information in a magazine. LOL I sure as **** would use it if I suspected something too. I hope it really turns out to be nothing though. Good luck!

Answer 10

What would be the point? If you are certain that your husband has disrespected you in this manner and that his intention is to continue to do so. Why is your self esteem so low that you continue to stay thereby condoning his behavior. If you are not happy with the situation change situations you don't have to "catch" him to do this you merely have to set standards for your relationship and hold him and yourself to them.